Think You’re Moving Too Fast? Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Slow Down

March 4th, 2012 - By Julia Austin
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Time waits for no one

Some women worry, when they meet a guy who they like and who likes them back, that if they spend too much time together too soon, they’ll burn out on each other. But get real. Being with someone isn’t about having enough things to talk about or finding enough new adventures to go on. It’s about a feeling you have around them. And that is something that either never runs out, or was just bound to—regardless of how much time you spent together.

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  • Ladybug94

    Every situtation is different.  Some people go out on one date and assume they are already in a relationship without anything being discussed.  It’s usually the woman assuming they are in relationship and the man thinking they are just hanging out.  In a few instances it’s the other way around but people definitely need to do more communicating on specifics of their relationship instead of assumptions.

  • MixedUpInVegas

    A lot depends on the relative ages and experience of the two lovers.  Very young lovers are notorious for hot romances that flare out fast.  Older lovers have had more experience in life, love and the opposite sex and may be in a better position to recognize a good potential partnership and seize it before it gets away.

    I’m sure most people have had what looked like promising loves come into their lives that ended in disappointment.  Only a few loves will be the lasting one, so if you think you have found it, grab it!

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  • Kurojin

     the editors should learn/know the difference between “your” and “you’re”!

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  • Editor

    Please edit before posting! Be professional! I want to share so many articles with my friends (because of their content), but I am always concerned that those who are not Women of Color will look at them and think, “these Black people can’t even write on a professional blog,” and that those who are Women of Color will question why I am “reading something obviously written by high school kids who still don’t know how to write.”   We have got to do better, people.
    And please, for the love of all that is good in the world, please take down those annoying video clips! I hate trying to read articles while hearing this noise in the background, or closing tabs because I can’t figure out from where the sound is coming, only to find it to be your site.  Getting rid of slideshows and making articles one page would be nice, too. Slideshows are slow to load, and they are just annoying.

  • JEANNAE

    Come on Madame Noire, where is your copy editor. Please don’t put a big bold faced “YOUR” instead of “you’re” on the front page of the site, the heading of the article and then all 7 pages of the article!! Makes you look like a bunch of teenagers trying to give grown up advice.

  • Osie

    *YOU’RE
    It’s you’re, dumbass.  Learn to spell before you try blogging.  Nobody needs (bad) love advice from someone who can’t even spell.

  • Regina

    I would love to take a chance and share everything with that special someone…..it develop a much richer and deeper relationship on all social and emotional aspect.

  • Regina

    Someone doesn’t need to have been in your life for years to leave a very strong impression on you……..I  strongly agree…it is what they call chemistry…….but what does any of this matter if God says he or she is yours…..I am just no nonsense.

  • Regina

    As far as the situation of burning one another out to soon…is simply a thought at the beginning of a relationship because that person wants the relationship to last, although they know it will….just thought of a beginning relationship.

  • Truth

    I married after four months of dating!!!!!!!!! 

    • Regina

      How long have you guys been together now….and do you believe this person is your soul mate or not and if so why?

  • Regina

    Those stories of our grandparents falling in love and staying together for 30 and 40 years I do believe exist…..you just have to believe that it still exist or you might miss that special someone…that special relationship that will last.

    • Truth

       They exist…

    • sweettea

      They still exist. I got married after dating 4 months

      • sweettea

        9th anniversary is tomorrow

  • Freshtadef

    Where were u like 6 months ago? good article but I do agree with appljuicekiss lol

  • Mangoago

    Yeah just do what feels right to you. Not everyone is going to agree on relation situations. If you think you’re moving to fast, then slow down and vice versa. It’s your life

  • Appljuicekiss

    Come on, jaustin, the title should be “Think *you’re* moving too fast?…”

    • Me

      I clicked on the link JUST to make this point.

    • Free Girl

      That first paragraph is filled with grammatical mistakes. It’s embarrassing. I don’t think confusing your and you’re was a typo, but reflects poor language skills. Pull the whole article and start again.