They Tell Me I’m Too Controlling, What Should I Do?

February 27, 2012 ‐ By

From Your Tango

Do you scare away the men in your life because you come off as too controlling? Do you want to learn how to take a backseat in your relationships and let the other person lead for a change?

In this video, Relationship & YourTango Expert Jasbina Ahluwalia helps a reader who is often criticized by the men she dates that she’s too controlling. She wants to be able to hold on to her power as a woman but also maintain a healthy and balanced relationship.

See what this expert has to say to this woman at Your 


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  • SoTrue

    the video has been removed…

  • kikilikejoye

    Women should more independent… friends in ??in’terracialsocial.COMwe share lots of ideas for life 

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  • Rosario Stefania Scarsci

    Women can be super controlling. I’ve seen my friends behave this way with their boyfriends. It’s annoying.

  • lisa

    Thanks! The guy I’m currently talking to says this all the time. I think it’s because I’m a new teacher and sometimes I take it out on him :( 

  • L-Boogie

    Um, how about men who are very controlling toward women?  

    • sweettea

      They did that one a couple weeks ago. Basically when you find a controlling man run the other way