More Than Half of Births to Women Under 30 Occur Outside Marriage

February 20th, 2012 - By Brande Victorian

Much in the way that married couples are expected to become the minority in America within the coming years, single parenthood has already become the official norm among women under 30, with more than half of these births occurring outside of marriage. The face of the single mother has also changed in some ways too. While stereotypes would have you think only minorities have babies out of wedlock, a New York Times report found that the fastest growth in the last two decades has occurred among white women in their 20s who have some college education but no four-year degree.

While overall, most women are married when they have babies—59 percent, according to 2009 data—the trend among women under 30 foreshadows a transformation that may come with future generations, and one that may not be beneficial. As The NYT points out, “researchers have consistently found that children born outside marriage face elevated risks of falling into poverty, failing in school, or suffering emotional and behavioral problems.”

An educational divide may explain this growing issue, as college graduates as a whole don’t fit the trend. About 92 percent of college-educated women are married when they give birth, compared with 62 percent of women with post-secondary schooling, and 43 percent of women with a high school diploma or less, according to Child Trends, a Washington research group that analyzed government data.  Despite the growth among young white women, minority women still constitute a large portion of these births with 73 percent of black children being born outside marriage, compared with 53 percent of Latinos and 29 percent of whites.

Depending on your perspective, this data is either cause for alarm or a testament to changing attitude’s toward marriage and women’s independence. Frank Furstenberg, a sociologist at the University of Pennsylvania, said “Marriage has become a luxury good,” and Teresa Fragoso, 25, a single mother in Lorain, OH, backed up that thinking by saying “Women used to rely on men, but we don’t need to anymore. We support ourselves. We support our kids.”

As the stigma around singlehood and single parenthood continues to lift, it can only be expected that this trend will continue—and the consequences will only be revealed as time goes on.

What do you think about this trend? Is it fine for women to embrace single motherhood or is this more evidence of the breakdown of American families?

Brande Victorian is a blogger and culture writer in New York City. Follower her on Twitter at @be_vic.

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  • Peramia

    I noticed these numbers don’t differentiate between teen pregnancies, choice moms, or simply unmarried couples. I’m actively trying to become a single mom right now. I’m not doing it because I don’t want a spouse, but because I couldn’t find one and I refused to settle and make both myself, my spouse, and (most importantly) my kid miserable. 

    Let’s face it, most men these days don’t want the whole married with kids picture.

    • sweettea

      Thats not true there are a lot of men ready and willing to be husbands and fathers if they met the right woman. However theres nothing wrong with you wanting to be a single mom. Just raise your kids right. No special snowfake syndrome and don’t suddenly feel all guilty afterwards and buy them things they don’t deserve just because you have the money.

    • sweettea

      Thats not true there are a lot of men ready and willing to be husbands and fathers if they met the right woman. However theres nothing wrong with you wanting to be a single mom. Just raise your kids right. No special snowfake syndrome and don’t suddenly feel all guilty afterwards and buy them things they don’t deserve just because you have the money.

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  • Ms_Sunshine9898

    I’ll never understand the desire of women to justify having kids out of wedlock. . .

    • perplexed

      me too Ms Sunshine, me too!

    • CiCi

      It isnt ideal for everyone,but it works for myyself and my family. But besides tht ignorant comment, sigle parent means to parent without the support of the other parental unit for the child. I am a single lady, not a single mother…#fact

      • Ms_Sunshine9898

        ignorant? lady if it works for you fine. even still again, if you are not married and you are a mother, you are a SINGLE MOTHER. SMH at women making up titles for BS instead of calling it what it is #madness. . . btw you want ignorance? here you go: please, by all means please continue to justify that a man didn’t think you were good enough to put a ring on it and gave you a baby that you mostly likely do everything for yourself and best case scenario, he sticks around and actually helps from time to time. is that ignorant enough for you?

        • Lady4life

          Some woman are looking at this from one side. What about divorced woman who had a ring put on it but the man moved on and neglect their responsibility even if it was court ordered. Those woman are single mothers or single parents. I became a single parent after my ex and I divorced. He stayed away from our child for years. I have friends who divorced before the birth of a child. Some woman lose their husbands in the war while pregnant. My point is you can do they right things but life is very unpredictable. We as woman need to stop bashing each other or placing everyone in the same box and learn to uplift one another.  

          • Ms_Sunshine9898

            That is very what you say and in cases like yours I think it’s understandable compared to allowing some men to keep doing the things they do to assist with destroying our community . . .

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