Things That Scare Women Off, But Shouldn’t

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February 15, 2012 ‐ By Julia Austin

"Couple flirting"

“I’m ready for something serious:”

We are not used to hearing this. Are there guys out there looking for something serious? Of course there are! But, most of them hide the fact like they would a murder. So, if a man comes out and lets a woman know he is ready for something serious, she will often read it as needy. And while that is the case sometimes, there are some men out there who are trying to weed out party girls that are just looking to have some fun and toy with their hearts.

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  • Candacey Doris

    Who’s afraid of this? 

    • Natgrea69

       Women may say that they wanted a good man but as proven above it’s clearly untrue

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    that last girl (on point 7 ) is GORGEOUS!

  • MixedUpInVegas

    Good on ya, Aliyluv!  May you have many happy years together!

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  • MixedUpInVegas

    This is the stuff that is supposed to scare women off?  Goodness, where did the writer get her material?  Men like these can be pure gold, whether a relationship results from it or not.  At the very least, the woman will experience a man in the round–complete and honest.  Anyone who is frightened off by these things isn’t a grownup yet.  Go for it, experience it and enjoy it for what it is!!

    • Aliyluv

      I married this type of Man and its been blissful ever since.

  • Whoknow

    This article is RIDICULOUS!  The writer should be shot!

  • NelleBelle

    I recently started dating a man who is pretty much all of these things.I was confused at first because he wasn’t playing the games I was used to. I’m young but not a dummy. I’m hanging on to this one.

  • Missme77

    Only women who are afraid of these men are the ones use to getting beat/abused by men or grew up in a household that was abusive. Smh it’s a sad truth though.

    • michael perry

      Not true most women think this way until they realize they’re thinking too much.

  • V2

    It’s kind of funny how men are often slammed as being afraid of commitment when it comes to relationships but the one’s who aren’t, and initiate the first steps toward it, are written off as “needy”. A dude really can’t win nowadays!

    • LaLaLaMeansILoveYou

      Not necessarily true. I was reading this article and the whole time thinking “huh???”…any woman who is scared off by these things (a nice, sincere, gentleman who is actually interested in her) is either 1) too young to know any better, 2) a “bag lady”, or 3) a dayum fool.

      • Pahleeze

        I was thinking the same thing. LOL! No woman within her right mind would run from this unless she is what you said and add the following 4) golddigger 5) low self esteem 6) a maneater #smh

      • Smmmoke

        Good to see a woman that feels this way but understand that you are the exception.

      • FromUR2UB

        I agree.  Some of this is ridiculous.  If a woman writes a guys off for telling her she seems like a kind person, or likes her enough to want to arrange a second date during the first one, then she deserves and probably prefers the kind of guys she’s used to.

      • Native_Noir

        Co-sign!!!

      • Cha-Cha

        I was thinking the exact same thing… I thought this had to be a joke. Women don’t really run from this kind of behavior, do they?

    • Mixedmingle

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      It’s a nice place for black white sing’les, to interact with each other…no bounds or extremes in front of true love. 

    • Lickupon

       I agree…when asked by a new woman ‘what are you looking for?’ I always reply ‘friendship and to have a good time.’ The skeptics who seek out character flaws tend to think that I just want some azz. I tell them yeah I want that as well but you gotta be bringing more than that to keep me around.

      But seriously, what’s wrong with just tryna have fun? That’s the initial goal right? It’s too stressful to try to think ahead if a person will be THE ONE in the beginning. Hell people don’t even know if they like someone yet and they already worried about long-term stuff.

    • Kim3473sf28

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