Dealing With Drama?: How To Know When It’s Time To Go

February 19th, 2012 - By Julia Austin

"Couple arguing"

No relationship is perfect. There is a certain amount of arguing and sacrificing in every one. But, how much is too much? When has a relationship crossed over from functional to a little bumpy, to just plain toxic?

Here’s how you can tell..

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  • Sugar_Spice

    I have one to add, If you feel the need to snoop then you need to get out of that relationship. Either you don’t trust your partner 100% or you feel like your partner isn’t giving you the full truths, either way that is a toxic relationship.

  • IllyPhilly

    when is it time to go? When as Chris Rock said, you buy a shovel and tarp and have your alibi rehearsed.

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  • DXTASY

    This article makes many valid points but let’s be honest here. Sex is the glue that keeps a tattered relationship together. On more than one occasion I had females complain to me about their man (he did this or he did that, I can’t believe he would do this to me, what did I ever see in him) but yet and still she’s still dealing with the guy so it’s got to be something. Many toxic relationships are held together because the sex is so awesome but the trade off is having to deal with the  multitude of BS that this article suggests. Until people truly open their eyes and use their brain and see reality for what is with their relationship drama will never die.

    • justmyopinion

      wisdom is the difference in staying or leaving a toxic relationship reguardless of the sex. no fleeting feeling is worth the rest of your time putting up with b.s., arguing, disrespect, being secretive etc…people that hang around for physical needs are truly indeed weak minded!

      • DXTASY

        Amen

  • Merriegirl

    I can agree with some of the points made here, but others seem like advice given from a single friend or someone who hasn’t been in a relationship for an extended period of time.
    “A healthy relationship still considers the impression it makes.” This statement is
    evaluating love as a logic process that is supposed to have an understood
    order. Wrong! Love is erratic, its emotional, its all over he place. The heart
    is incapable of always thinking before it speaks, so sometimes a disagreement
    may become a little loud in public due to the passion the couple shares.
    “That means they do not trust your own strength to not allow the negative traits of others to seep
    into you. They are not treating you like a grown up.” Once again naïve advice.
    In general people are who they associate with. We are the sum of who we bring
    into our lives. We are social beings who are greatly affected by the traits of
    our friends. So it is very reasonable for someone’s intimate partner to not want
    him or her be-friend negative influences.
    People in committed relationships want their privacy from their friends
    and family.  All relationships have problems. & Discussing your relationship problems with your parents will often lead to their dislike of your partner. & Even if advice could be sought
    from friends or relatives, they are only given your side of the issue, which
    does not allow them to give adequate objective advice.

    • Babaybooty

      150% agree!