Signs You And Him Are Not On The Same Page

February 8, 2012 ‐ By Julia Austin

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“Just make sure you’re not leading him on…” Ever have a friend say this to you and you’re thinking, “what is she talking about?” Sometimes, it’s not so easy to see when you’re not on the same page as someone. Especially when they are the one a few pages ahead of you—because they are the only one who feels that something is missing. Wondering if your man is waiting for you to catch up? Think about this:

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  • raptor45

    ….”you and him..”?? Did this “writer” ever sit through an English class?

  • Lilfe_fe

    NEWS FLASH!!!!  It goes both ways …..he’ll like you, you won’t like him AND there will be times when you like him and he won’t like you.  It’s not always going to be on and poppin. 

  • Thatgirlang

    I’m not into this story… We as women are always crying how the guys treat us wrong… So if you find a guy into you…. Then appreciate it. I would have liked it better had it focused on how to know you are great together….

  • jadefoxx225

    This article is so relatable. In my situation he is a very good guy and very sweet, but he did ALL of this in the same month after us being friends for 11 yrs.It literally came out of nowhere. I told him “Im sorry, but once your in the friend zone with me then thats where u stay”.I still feel bad, but it was like my brother asking me out.

  • GeeMoeNettie

    Jaustin! PLEASE take a grammar class!

  • FAMURattler85

    OOPS! i’ve got about 4 or 5 guys that do all of this right now! It seems like they get to that point overnight. How do I put an end to all of this without breaking hearts???

  • Dcarter910

    From the stand point of a man, this article is ON POINT 100% agree!!! Those are clear signs if a guy is really into you or not. As a matter of fact, reading it help me see just how much I am NOT in love with my current girlfriend.

  • nena

    It’s sad. This story IS THE STORY OF MY LIFE….. except i’m the girl who is like 20 steps ahead of the guy i like. Everything in this article applied to me….. I DO all of those things and realize he’s way behind me.

    • Dcarter910

      Im sorry, but I know exactly how you feel. Right now I am that guy that is way behind (not really in love). She knows it, but because I wont cheat on her regardless (which she knows), then she just ignores my lack of feelings for her. ANYWAY, like you I wish I could find someone with mutual feelings of love and affection.

      • Wuluwulu

         Why don’t both of you just go out and see if you hit it off, Nena already knows you are a monogamous man, and you already know Nena loves to take care of those she loves. Strike while the iron is hot.

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  • MixedUpInVegas

    It is always nice when a man clearly demonstrates that he is into you.  Maybe he is just moving faster than you are; maybe he is needy; maybe he feels this relationship is something that has long term potential.

    Maybe you just haven’t given it that much thought; maybe you are more cautious about showing your interest and your heart; maybe you just don’t get that spark with him; maybe you are waiting to see if he has anything real to offer a relationship.

    Maybe . . . you two will meet in the middle sometime.

  • TJG

    Greeeeat. Every one of these are right on point in my current situation. 

  • Cher1ce

    The story of my life.  I’m never into guys as much as they’re into me!  SMH.  I wanna be the reverse of this like SOON! 

    • Guest

      It’s usually the ones that are into me that I’m not into and the ones I’m into that don’t feel the same way.

    • Sugar_Spice

      That was the same with me, then I met my husband & am now on the opposite end of this.

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