7 Things That Should Never Happen In The Bedroom

February 7th, 2012 - By Julia Austin

"Black couple in a fight in bed"

It’s said that men think with their…well, you know. And that is particularly true in the bedroom when things are getting hot and heavy. But just because a man’s animal instincts may kick in, that is no excuse for manners to go out the window. Don’t ever let a man get away with these things (i.e. if he does them, get dressed and walk out):

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  • Patricia

     A man I met, dated, and considered my partner for several years informed me he had Herpes only when I contracted the virus.  Ethical and loving dating requires honesty and disclosure.  When I broke up with this man, I told him it wasn’t because he had herpes but because he lacked the integrity to tell me before our relationship became sexual–and failed to use protection during the many instances in which he made me vulnerable. 

  • Martina

    If you don’t trust the man’s word that he is clean, then what are you doing sleeping with him?

  • orange rhino

    Don’t ever allow him to bring his sheep or goat to bed.  They shed fur like crazy.

  • Grindmeapound

    Almost all of the lady’s that i have had the pleasure, (my preferance)…. of goin down to the Y on do look at me with half closed moaning eyes, this is a turn on for me as i know she’s really enjoying the experiance, i ain’t got a problem stay’n down there as long as she’ll let me,an hour and a half is my limit though, my neck always says when.

  • BLu

    Umm demand he clean up? So he should wipe your puss down? No thanks

  • Tchanielle

    These are 7 of the reasons why I’ve been hiding in celibacy for the past 3 years..smh!! Being in a secure relationship makes for the best sexual experiences. IJS #put it on him/her

  • Ichi_the_Killer

    I hope we all realize by now that there are no absolute judgments when it comes to sex.  One woman enjoying being manhandled is another woman’s rape.  That’s why you TALK ABOUT SEX WITH YOUR PARTNER!!  You aren’t a teenager trying to figure out what to do- you know what to do, and more to the point, you should know what you like and don’t like, generally speaking.  If you make it clear to your man that you do NOT want him to put anything in your butt, but he CAN touch or massage it, he won’t be trying to do the sneak attack.
    However, some experimentation is a good thing, and you may discover something you like even though you thought you wouldn’t, so try to be open minded with your partner, and don’t be mean or rude, just say, “I could maybe see if I like that” or “No, the whole idea just completely turns me off- I don’t want to go there.  Maybe we could try something else?”  That way, he won’t be constantly trying to suck on your toes, and instead give you the spanking you’ve been dying for.

    MEN- If you want to make some serious positive love points with your woman, after you are done with your encounter, do this- go in the bathroom, get a washcloth and dampen with warm water, and a dry towel or cloth, and very gently clean up your woman for her.  She will love the respect and thoughtfulness you have showed, and be much more willing to repeat the encounter in the future.  Try a Little Tenderness guys.

  • Jestina1292

    Basically this is a list of :7 REASONS to wait till marriage. Trust me young ones ALL of these problems can be avoided or delt with in marriage. For example the one about him Leaving after Ah..in marriage it’s his home too. 

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    Really?? People need an article to understand this???

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    Really?? People need an article to understand this???

  • Dee Asay

    Why would anyone say to your current lover that my ex liked it when I did this.  You are in a different relationship and you should never compare your spouse with an old ex. Great post everyone who is ready this can learn from this post. 

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      You sound like you are a back door hootchie momma !

  • James6

    This lady is whacked outta her mind. She needs to be b**** slapped.

  • Bigguy1922

    Men always get called out on the carpet for asking woman for unprotected sex, but woman need to be called out as well for the same issue. I have had woman at least 5 offer me unprotected sex without being asked for it and they had not know me long at all ranging from a lawyer to a police officer so that non sense goes both ways. NO ONE should ever go raw with someone without Doctor tests results and i mean an STD PANEL not just getting tested for HIV.  

    • http://profiles.yahoo.com/u/MLSJPD7HVS2XLAG5A3V2U3CTAA obama_tar.baby

      How about  just not facking women you are not married to? 

      I know its a novel concept…

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  • BroMcK

    This subject matter and the associated comments are really disturbing…”looking into his eyes can make it seem too intimate,” really, really; having sex is a waste of time, but making love “is” an intimate expression of real love, unselfish and soul stirring, the way it was meant to be.

  • Mystery

    what that part should have said was:  neither partner should ever be too tired to finish the other off.  It doesnt take much effort to manually stimulate either party to the big O.   

  • Mystery

     ”If you finish before your guy and you are just exhausted.”  isn’t this the same thing as scenario 2 just reversed? So it’s alright for you to be just exhausted and not finish your guy off, and he shouldn’t get upset about it(when it takes no effort for using your hand to help him at the end).  Then when he gets off first, and doesn’t finish you off, it suddenly becomes a big deal?   Wow…  Spoken like a true anti-male feminist.

    • Ampaipun1

      I dated a woman who’s regular boyfriend was pretty fast to finish.She was so use to it that she always finish before me and hurried to the bathroom.I was left by myself and after the third time I never saw her again.

  • A real Man…

    Are you serious with these?   They are so common sense and all should go without saying.
    Here’s pointer #8..    “Stop spreading your legs for guy’s who you know are going too/have already treated you like crap.”    If your with a real man, there isnt one of these seven that should ever come up or need to be discussed.    Maybe one of these days people will come to realize that one night stands, or “hook ups” arent a good idea.  That’s the only scenario where these would apply- where you dont really “know” the person your with…   Deep deep sigh….

    • Ivyljones82

      i totally agree with you!