1. Am I over my infidelity insecurities?
I can’t say that I was never cheated on before, but I can say that I never stayed around long enough to find out. Once my gut felt like something was off with my man’s feelings, I hauled a**, which may not have always been the best decision. Unfortunately, I’ve seen many a woman sabotage their new relationship because they are too busy holding on to what the last boyfriend did against the new one. By chanting the mantra, “Every man cheats,” many women are creating a self-fulfilling prophecy where a man feels like he might as well do what he’s already being constantly accused of. Give yourself a chance to trust again and give that brother a break.