DWAYNE WADE? CUTE? NOW YALL KNOW DWAYNE IS UGLY AS HECK! JUST BECAUSE HE’S BLACK DOESN’T MAKE HIM OK LOOKING AND HE’S NO WHERE NEAR A CUTE. GABBY, SHE LOOKS OK. 

As a married woman, I deplore the idea of marital infidelity. I took vows with my husband that I honor and expect the same of him. What is beyond me though, is the venom people have for these women in their comments. Calling them “J-Ho” and “Angelina Ho-lie,” etc. I am by no means excusing, endorsing or advocating the fact that these women allegedly got involved romantically with married men (I say allegedly because Lord knows none of us were there to know the true details; we are going based on what was reported).

However, most of us have been approached by a spoken-for man at some point in our lives whether he was married, engaged, living with someone or supposedly was in a committed boyfriend-girlfriend relationship.

Some of them are blatant and upfront about it; others are not. I was once approached by a man who made my Spidey-Sense tingle! We met through an acquaintance; he had no wedding ring on and called me all of the time and took me out to a couple of nice dinners. I asked about past relationships, whether or not he was seeing anyone else, etc. He seemed to have answers for everything, but something just didn’t seem right to me. He was too anxious, he wanted to move too quickly for my taste —it seemed like it was urgent for him to reel me in… After several phone calls (cell phones) and two dinner dates, he asked me to go away for the weekend with him (keep in mind we hadn’t even kissed yet). I told him I needed to think about it and he said he needed to know quickly so his assistant could make the arrangements so I asked for his office phone number so I could let her know and he gave it to me. I called his office the next day and asked for him and when his assistant asked “Who’s calling?” I replied, “His wife.” Her voice changed and she said, “Oh, hi Tammy! You didn’t sound like yourself, hold on.” Needless to say, when she put the call through I told the guy that I would not be accepting his invitation, nor would I be accepting any future phone calls from him.

The point of all of that is to say that cheaters (not just men) sometimes are upfront about their status and other times are not. Who knows what these men were telling the women they cheated with. Maybe they said that the marriage was over but they were trying to keep it out of the press for their kids’ sake? Perhaps they said they had to wait to go public because their mother was sick in the hospital and the news would kill her? Maybe they said that the FBI was about to arrest their wives for drug smuggling; their wives wee lying hermaphrodites who gave them the clap or any other ridiculousness and these chicks believed them?

Whatever the case, we as fans/the public don’t know what actually transpired. However, as a wife who values her marriage and takes her vows very, very seriously, I definitely blame the married men much more so than the single women because  THEY took vows, THEY were unfaithful, THEY broke up their families. My husband cannot stop you from looking at him, telling him how fine he is or wanting to sleep with him. But he DAMNED SURE CAN AND BETTER STOP YOU FROM TOUCHING HIM, and refuse to pay you any mind whatsoever… I would be annoyed with a woman for going after my obviously married man, but I’d be hurt and angry at my husband if he took any woman up on an offer, because at the end of the day he answers to me regarding his fidelity just as I answer to him; she (the wanna-be mistress) doesn’t.

Oh, boy I’ll forgive Lauryn Hill anything if she just came back. We need her right now, she the only 1 who would have Jayonce trembling. Lauryyyyyyn commmmmme baaaaack.

You cant take another persons wife or husband…they come willing…all u all sound like some cheated on, angry people….lol