Interracial Marriages in Hollywood That Are Hanging Tough

267 Comments
January 24, 2012 ‐ By

Black love is wonderful, but so is all types of love. In this edition of couples we love, we highlight four of our favorite Hollywood interracial couples, who’ve stood the test of time. We can only hope that Halle Berry has this much luck with her soon-to-be hubby (who cares if it’s not official) Oliver Martinez.

 

"aisha tyler and husband"

Aisha Tyler and Jeff Tietjens

Aisha Tyler married her husband, attorney Jeff Tietjens in 1992, and they have been going strong ever since. What makes their story extra sweet is that they met in college at Dartmouth. At 41, Aisha is yet to have kids with her hubby. With her busy schedule, co-hosting on The Talk and running her podcast “Girl on Guy,” we don’t know when she’ll have the time.

MadameNoire Video

Comment Disclaimer: Comments that contain profane or derogatory language, video links or exceed 200 words will require approval by a moderator before appearing in the comment section. XOXO-MN
  • neverlie

    This is so silly. There are Millions of interracial relationship around the world. I wish people would grow up and stop letting past history and stereotypes dictate their lives. Live for yourselves, don’t let idiots steal your JOY!

  • DuBois

    Actually, Tiger is 50% Asian, 25% black, 12.5% Native American, and 12.5% white.

  • kat

    WHERE’S IMAN AND DAVID BOWIE?

  • Anna

    I’m white, and my sister-in-law is black. She and my brother got married 12 years ago, and they’re still going strong. I’m actually babysitting their kids right now as a type this, since they’re out having their monthly “date night”.

  • Kari

    Don’t forget Iman and David Bowie. Their love is strong!

  • Schmooperz

    Robin Thicke will cheat on Paula. If he hasn’t already.

  • theobservantone

    i am so glad to see some of the opposite relationships of white guys with black women. i’m kinda sick of seeing white women with black men. you see it so much. i think a LOT of us black women feel like when we we see that, we’re not good enough. it seems when black guys get a little popular, or get money, we black women are kicked to the curb. but it is nice to see the other way around. there should be a LOT more of it. i don’t think black women are secretly embarrassed by it and try to hide it as KIR12 suggests. we would LOOOVE to see it happen a LOT MORE.

  • Guest

    Tyler nor  Tietjens are wearing smiles.  I guess it is good they have that in common on that photo.

    I didn’t know the sexiest dude on Gery’s Anatomy (although this photo doesn’t show it with the scruffy thing going) was married to a woman of color.

  • Brownie2shasta

    Just goes to show you that black women are better off marrying out…Black men can’t seem to stay married to anyone…So much for all of these ignorant black men out here saying how no one, especially white men don’t want black women…WRONG!!!

    • Brownie2shasta

      oh yeah…I married to a white man and  LOVING IT!!!! and not looking back!

  • B14

    What about Ron Perlman & his wife, Opal Stone? They’ve been together since 1981!

  • d14mond

    I wish you would write posts as one page, clicking through to each page ruins the reading experience

  • Just my Oponion

    This is stupid. Bottom Line. Rich and Famous white men do not marry ordinary black women.  Rich and Famous black men marry any white women who would have them.

  • Guess

    There are just to many black men who cheat mercilessly, have to many children, and to top that off have all those children by a host of different women, don’t want to work, if they do work it’s the lowest less ambitious job on the totem pole, don’t want to go out and get an education, and has a host of STDs. Whew! That is even alot to type. Only a handful of Black men do not fit this profile and it is just utterly sad. Oh I forgot, alot of them do not care for those children financially. And even less than that actually take time and help raise their children. Many Black men are not in the homes of their children.Alot of them f and leave. It’s so sad. This is why our community is in such a fragile fractured piece. The average black man isn’t in his proper place. He’s failed the community.

    I don’t blame these women for getting a non black man. I would to.

  • Tangled Tango

    Would y’all STOP RESPONDING TO KELLY! She’s hijacking our site and you are letting her by responding to he/she/it. It has been proven time and time again that Kelly isn’t who he/she/it isn’t who they say they are, so just flag them and move the heck on. You can’t reason with the unreasonable it’s silly to let one person have so much power.

  • Imagine all the people

    Oh one last thing Kelly is a TROLL and gets off on making you angry, when you respond to her you give her power- stop doing it and she will go away and troll on another site, she even admits that’s how she gets her jollies (how sad) the more we all ignore her on this site the more nasty and negative she will get, but if we all collectively ignore her trust me she WILL go away. No one who is happy with themselves would hang out on a site with people they claim to hate so much and argue with them all day, if they had a life they’d be living it. If white men loved her so much she’d be out dating them. People who hate themselves often want to bring others down to their same level of misery rather than try and improve themselves. It’s like the person who buys a gun and shoots up a room full of innocent people because their life isn’t going right. Don’t let her infect you with her sickness instead let it fester within her self and eat away at her. I think it’s the least she deserves.

  • Imagine all the people

    Does Kelly have tourette syndrome or is English her second language? Perhaps I would be offended by what she said if I could actually comprehend what she said. She doesn’t seem to formulate cognitive sentences just a random strings of words and word clusters. I don’t think all of her synapse are firing properly. There is definitely some sort of disconnection going on in Kelly’s brain.    

  • Mresa2000

    I don’t see why everybody is so angry about this story. It sounds crazy to be so invested in being angry about people’s preference of who they marry and date.

    • Torontochick

      I think people here are more angry at Kelly LOL.

  • Torontochick

    Kelly stated that she has a white grandmother who adopted her. The problem is that Kelly never knew her black mother and as a result she is suffering from some very deep-seated and extreme abandonment issues that she is projecting on all black women as a coping mechanism. It’s quite sad and I hope she seeks out the therapy she clearly so desperately needs.

    It has been said that mixed-race adolescents suffer from more extreme psychological issues, depression and identify confusion than adolescents who are not mixed-race and this is a primary reason usually stated for bigots who oppose interracial marriage. Unfortunately, Kelly has chosen to publicly represent herself as an explicit example of that.

  • Torontochick

    Kelly stated that she has a white grandmother who adopted her. The problem is that Kelly never knew her black mother and as a result she is suffering from some very deep-seated and extreme abandonment issues that she is projecting on all black women as a coping mechanism. It’s quite sad and I hope she seeks out the therapy she clearly so desperately needs.

    It has been said that mixed-race adolescents suffer from more extreme psychological issues, depression and identify confusion than adolescents who are not mixed-race and this is a primary reason usually stated for bigots who oppose interracial marriage. Unfortunately, Kelly has chosen to publicly represent herself as an explicit example of that.

  • Torontochick

    Um WOW, that Kelly chick is out of control! If you don’t remotely identify with your black side, WHY ARE YOU HERE?

  • Torontochick

    Um WOW, that Kelly chick is out of control! If you don’t remotely identify with your black side, WHY ARE YOU HERE?

    • Nonono

      Thats rich, coming from you.  Arent you ashamed to be black b/c many in our community refuses to support gay marriage.  And you prefer to pass, being mixed, you can do so. Those are your words.

      • Torontochick

        I identify as Creole/mulatto or black depending on who’s asking. If someone asks if I’m black I’m not going to say no. I’m equally as hard on whites who are bigoted and ashamed of them too but this is a black site. Kelly hates blacks on a visceral level – she is ridiculing even the way they look. My comment referred to the culture – a culture of hatred and homophobia. THAT is what I don’t want to be identified with, I’m not saying I don’t want to be black PHYSICALLY.

      • Torontochick

        I identify as Creole/mulatto or black depending on who’s asking. If someone asks if I’m black I’m not going to say no. I’m equally as hard on whites who are bigoted and ashamed of them too but this is a black site. Kelly hates blacks on a visceral level – she is ridiculing even the way they look. My comment referred to the culture – a culture of hatred and homophobia. THAT is what I don’t want to be identified with, I’m not saying I don’t want to be black PHYSICALLY.

      • Torontochick

        …nor am I implying that blacks are physically or genetically incapable like she did. I am saying the culture needs to change and be more accepting. I don’t like bigots – period.

      • Torontochick

        …nor am I implying that blacks are physically or genetically incapable like she did. I am saying the culture needs to change and be more accepting. I don’t like bigots – period.

  • Guest

    Here we go again — sigh…..
    MN holds up four ir couples as the model for black women even though the majority of bw marry bm. Please!  IMHO, none of the men accept for Justin Chambers are even attractive.  So I guess it is only their skin color that is the attraction for you.  So very sad…
    And before you cheerleaders for ir dating/marriage jump on my case, just know that I am not some bitter angry black woman.  I have been married for over 20 years to a wonderful bm and have 3 awesome kids (2 of which are fine upstanding black males)

    • Anonymous

      Yeah here we go again ,,*sigh*
      MN features a story on ir couples and people get mad because others are open to it and start trying to tell Adults who they can find attractive.  So very sad…Get a Life!

      • Guest

        Obviously, you can’t read.  It is clear from my original post, that I have a life.  You seem to be the one who needs to get a life with this ridiculous obsession with black women involved with white men.  It is women like yourself who are psychologically damaged, and unfortunately you don’t have a clue and think you are simply encouraging black women to be open. LOL

      • Guest

        Obviously, you can’t read.  It is clear from my original post, that I have a life.  You seem to be the one who needs to get a life with this ridiculous obsession with black women involved with white men.  It is women like yourself who are psychologically damaged, and unfortunately you don’t have a clue and think you are simply encouraging black women to be open. LOL

        • Kelly

          This is true. This is a BW with no life, meanwhile, WM are abusing the hell of of bw on their media and blogs.

        • Kelly

          This is true. This is a BW with no life, meanwhile, WM are abusing the hell of of bw on their media and blogs.

        • Anonymous

          And obviuosly uou are a opinonated overblown windbag that thinks she has the right to tell people what to fee and who to be attracted to..you think coming on here trying to scold us and give your second grade theory and ideals will make us feel guilty or shame us into something …And apparently you think we want to hear your family history but we don’t and no one cares..so if you know like I do you better take your hot air that’s in your azz and fly away home before you get your feelings hurt.

          • Guest

            No, not at all.  I can care less who YOU date or marry.  What I have a problem with are women like you extolling the virtues of white men over black men.  You are just a sad continuum of the Willie Lynch phenomenon.  If you don’t know what I’m talking about, visit your local Black bookstore and educate yourself on your history missy.

            And believe me; the likes of you could never hurt my feelings.  I put you and that crazy azz Kelly in the same category.

            • Anonymous

              What you have is gall to come on here talking about what grown people should and shouldn’t do…BW like you are the worst because you are so self righteous and self centered you honestly think you can tell other BW who they should have a relationship…I say screw you and your opinions… your thoughts and your whole life…..now is that crazy enuff azzhole?

              • Guest

                No where in my comments (please read them again if you like – read very very slowly) have i said bw should not date wm.  Believe me I CAN CARE LESS. I’m not going to rehash this with you.  But, hey you know what they say: throw a rock in a pack of dogs, the one that gets hit will holler.  We all hear you barking, Anonymous.

      • Kelly

        You seem to be the one who needs to get a life with this ridiculous obsession with black women involved with white men.  It is women like yourself who are psychologically damaged, and 

        Did you read that? Even the other black lady can see you are obsessed and crazy. 

      • Kelly

        You seem to be the one who needs to get a life with this ridiculous obsession with black women involved with white men.  It is women like yourself who are psychologically damaged, and 

        Did you read that? Even the other black lady can see you are obsessed and crazy. 

    • Kelly

      I agree with you. Black women re very obsessed with white men ,etc.  The women u were talking to seems upset she is being ignored, so she comes on here to vent her anger. Why does she not care that black senior kids are more dumber than 13 yrold white ids? 

      • Torontochick

        ‘More dumber?’ As a black/Creole woman who tested a full gradient above the average IQ I can tell you that anyone with a modicum of intelligence would never slaughter the language which they purport to speak like that. You are a full-on intellectually inept, emotionally damaged sociopath.

      • Torontochick

        ‘More dumber?’ As a black/Creole woman who tested a full gradient above the average IQ I can tell you that anyone with a modicum of intelligence would never slaughter the language which they purport to speak like that. You are a full-on intellectually inept, emotionally damaged sociopath.

      • K. Allen

        Pot.Kettle.Black. You’re obsessed with black women.

    • Ivegotalife

      So b/c you find only Justin Chambers attractive that means that the other women just married the men for skin and hair?  People are attracted to who they are attracted.  Just because you dont find someone good looking doesnt mean others wont.   

      • Ivegotalife

        And if you have 2 sons, get ready for 2 non black daughter in laws.  Will that be ok for you?  Or are you only again bw dating non black men?

        • Anonymous

          You make a good point…I can’t wait to hear what she has to say.

        • Guest

          Very Good Question!  I have already groomed my sons to date and marry Black Women.  My house has always been inundated with the diverse beauty of Black people, from art to literature (books, and magazines).  Now both my sons are attending HBCUs, why, because I encouraged it, and that is where I intend for them to find my future daughter-n-law. LOL!  I want BW to be the recipients of all my HARD work (a future surgeon, and a future banker).

          Thanks for the question…

      • Ivegotalife

        And if you have 2 sons, get ready for 2 non black daughter in laws.  Will that be ok for you?  Or are you only again bw dating non black men?

      • Anonymous

        She calls herself scolding us ….there’s always BW like her out there that think they can shame or guilt other BW that are open to mixed marriages/relationships ..they always talk about what a wonderful BM they are married too and how wonderful their life is ..Instead of just minding their own business and living their wonderful life they feel the need to butt in and make ignorant comments about something that has NOTHING to do with them and that’s when they get told off…im am really tired of these self rightous ninnies.

        • Guest

          Not scolding, just extremely disappointed in how ir relationships are presented on MN.  I don’t care who YOU date and marry.  What I care about is a site supposedly ran by Black people that constantly denigrate Black Men.  WTF?!  It just proves how screwed up some of us still are.  Like my Great-Aunt likes to say: “Slavery put somethin on Black people that they still haven’t been able to shake.” So sad, but so true.

          • Anonymous

            If you don’t like what’s presented on here you should leave …and just because there are stories here about BW/WM doesn’t mean it’s at the expense of BM …you’re a paranoid and if anybody’s screwed up it’s you.

            • Guest

              Free country — go where I please, and say what I want.  If you don’t like my opinions, then skip them & don’t bother to comment.  Works both ways…  It’s obvious I’m not the only one that feels this way about how ir dating is portrayed on this site – just read thru the comments; we’re not all paranoid.  

      • Guest

        Listen, I do the same thing to BM.  When I see them walking around with very unattractive white women, I’m like WTH?!  I can only conclude that it is the woman’s whiteness they are attracted to.  I’m hard on my brothers for this behavior, and I’m not going to let my sisters off the hook either.

        But, you are right.  People are attracted to who they are attracted.  Point well taken.

    • Ivegotalife

      So b/c you find only Justin Chambers attractive that means that the other women just married the men for skin and hair?  People are attracted to who they are attracted.  Just because you dont find someone good looking doesnt mean others wont.   

  • Pingback: FAMU Dismisses Students Charged With Hazing |()

  • Pingback: FAMU Dismisses Students Charged With Hazing()

  • DESPERATEHOUSEWIFE

    I AM SO ANGRY WITH YOU COMMENTORS FOR WASTING YOUR  TIME BY ENGAGING WITH KELLY.  IGNORE HER AND SHE WILL GO AWAY. 

    • Love_Sexy

      Agree 100%…………People need to not stress over that garbage because whoever it is they are nothing but trash……..I am tired of seeing “her/him or it” ranting and raving comments coming through my e-mail box…….But I love the “commentators responses to “her/him or it.”

  • Kelly

    If people are  want white men’s expertise to stand up against black women. Google and read, Drop Dead Doreen Lawrence . It was written by an English man with GUTS to take black women head on. 

  • Kelly

    Can everyone google the Angry black woman / Michelle Obama on the Guardian website. This is the place about real black women. Not the myth that they are the most desired women on earth, 

  • Kelly

    You see black women can scream and shout on this blog, when when white men go on the large newspaper websites – that have millions of readers – globally, making fun when black women die. Where  are these women? Nowhere you cannot do or say nothing to whites – or half whites like me. 

    The moment I am done from angering and make the blood pressure of black women reach sky heights, I go on the white sites for inspiration, a place where the whole world  can hate black women as one.

  • Kelly

    @1098a533741522e8d7ce320dfa6244b0:disqus   ThAT is why your mad, because no matter what you say about me…….I have the power of the white man 100% on my side to use HIS POWER and world global influence to rip apart the black women. HIPEEE HIPEEE HIPEE. 

    • Torontochick

      Kelly, YOU’RE the angry one, and you’re angry because your mother did not want you and left you to be raised by your white grandmother (from your dad). Instead of projecting this on total strangers, why don’t you talk to a shrink? You might feel better. Bitter and antagonistic people like yourself are more likely to develop atherosclerosis and ulcers. Do yourself a favour and deal with your anger and your various issues before they get the better of you.

    • Torontochick

      Kelly, YOU’RE the angry one, and you’re angry because your mother did not want you and left you to be raised by your white grandmother (from your dad). Instead of projecting this on total strangers, why don’t you talk to a shrink? You might feel better. Bitter and antagonistic people like yourself are more likely to develop atherosclerosis and ulcers. Do yourself a favour and deal with your anger and your various issues before they get the better of you.

  • Kelly

    @1098a533741522e8d7ce320dfa6244b0:disqus  Heepeee heeeepee heepeee, whike you sit, angrily trying to force to to be a black man. My own men  – the white man are on my side using their power to trash and destroy and there is mot a thing you can say.  Using their media clout to write article and reports on why black women are the way are, reaching millions more than this blog and allowing white men to leave the kind of comments that would make hitler cry. LOL LOL LOL  I love my power. I love my men .

    • Torontochick

      First of all, white men don’t own the media, Jews own the media, second of all, why do you pit yourself as a half-black woman against black women? One can love BOTH black women AND white men, it’s not like they are fundamentally at odds with each other and you have to pick a side. Are you retarded?

    • Torontochick

      First of all, white men don’t own the media, Jews own the media, second of all, why do you pit yourself as a half-black woman against black women? One can love BOTH black women AND white men, it’s not like they are fundamentally at odds with each other and you have to pick a side. Are you retarded?

  • Tired..

    What’s “real” is: Love does not have to be between the same “color”….. Keep your heart open.  That’s what’s important.   There are many good black men, white men, hispanic men, asian (both Far East and Middle Eastern), …etc…out there.  …And there are many good women……..If you have a narrow mind… 9 times out of 10, the person you seek will be like wise.

    • Kelly

      @1098a533741522e8d7ce320dfa6244b0:disqus  You have not got the guts, that is why you blocked me replying to you. Do not let me email the Wall street journal to to a scathing article about evil ugly black women

      • Kelly

        You know they will. Rupert FOX NEWS murdoch owns that paper. LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LL HEEEEPEEEE HEEEEEPEEEE HEEEEEPEEE 

  • Anonymous

    Oh..and they always bring Halle up….that’s what gives them away.
    I think Halle dating and having a child with WM really scarred a large number of BM for life…apparently Kelly is one of them.

    • Kelly

      You BW always make list. Who does that? Insecure black women

    • Kelly

      HE HE HE HE I have just come of the white blogs…white men are ripping you apart. They are not saying bad things about mixed race european girls. HEHEHEHEHEHEHEHEHEHEHE We get a pass!

      • Tired..

        Funny….you should say “us” for mixed race…..it sounds like you have hatred for yourself……You sound like you have issues….No, you don’t get a pass…..YOU ARE NOT IGNORANT….YOU ARE JUST ONE STUPID, PATHETIC PERSON.

        • Kelly

          Angry black woman is as famous as  OTT over the top. Have you heard angry mixed race woman? NO 

          • Torontochick

            Actually, yes. You sound pretty angry, cruel, and bitter to me. So I guess you can start the trend LOL.

            Newsflash: white nationalists hate half-negroes, too. Are you stupid or something?

          • Torontochick

            Actually, yes. You sound pretty angry, cruel, and bitter to me. So I guess you can start the trend LOL.

            Newsflash: white nationalists hate half-negroes, too. Are you stupid or something?

        • Kelly

          Nice try, but mixed race europeans have confidence and an identity far far far away from the blacks. I love who I am. I love my skinny 5ft11 frame; I love my long brunette hair ; I love my green eyes; I love my tan; I love my small – but full lips; I love my perfect ” white ” nose that is not squashed flat on my face; I love that I am a sample size. 

    • Kelly

      Halle is not even black, She is half white. She would never of become a world class beauty and movie star, if she was white,Her white is white and her daddy black. 

  • Anonymous

    Kelly is a disturbed, jealous twisted BM….I have run into so many of these guys on diffrent blogs it’s not even funny…they pretend to be racist WM or WW to try and ”scare” us away and say ‘see’ this is how they feel about you! OK..look at some of the people it named…White/others don’t know Garcelle Beauvis like that….  we know her because she was on Jamie Foxx 100 years ago but other than that she’s not really known like that except in Black circles….Latoya Jackson? Come on now….hell, Michael can barely get an honorable mention these days let alone Latoya!!.. when Latoya’s name comes up it’s within the Black community…that’s why I know this is just some bitter, threatened ,twisted BM that hates  to see BW in irr’s and comes to ANY blog that’s discussing this subject and insults BW …..I could go back and forth with this dude but I think this subject and the pics of 4 sucessful BW/WM couples is punishment enough.

    • Kelly

      I am mixed and female. But think what u like to sleep well. Can you prove it? No. Dismissed. Anyway, did you read the Guardian article about angry black women going nowhere in life. Gotta hand it to the UK……..always ready to report on black women – the real black woman. Oh and the comments from white men. Ouch!

    • Kelly

      I have the white man…and boy he is ready to use his power to destroy the black woman, I mean angry black woman. HEEEPEEE HEEEPEEE HEEEPEEE

  • Kelly

    Halle berry is smart, she does not want to lose her man to a nanny like Sienna did Jude law. Halle’s nanny is black and ugly. Good move Halle. 

  • Torontochick

    Why on earth do these always attract so many comments? If you can’t relate, just ignore it! It’s not for you! lol.

    • Kelly

      I have noticed that this has the most view….even more than when black women are kidnapped and murdered without anyone caring.   

  • Kelly

    If everyone wants to know who black women really are…..Read The angry black women story on the Guardian website. It is an organic account of black women.  

    The Guardian is the UK most respected newspaper.    They are best to report the REAL black woman, not this fantasy this site creates. 

  • Xerocky

    Well, at least somebody is keeping score!

    • Kelly

      LOL LOL That is what I love about these black blogs……..you always get fired, angry, abusive over what us white and half whites are doing. TEE HEE 

    • Kelly

      Black women hate their looks They give up black bay girls and boys to white women in Hollywood. 

  • Love_Sexy

    Did not know these people were together except for Paula and Robin.

    • Kelly

      They are the only Hollywood couple on the list. 

  • junny

    LMAO at Bawsip here, well done haha. Bm have burnt their bridges with bw, and women hate weak men, all these white wimmenz are checking out from these bitter bm even got Chelea Handler calling bm ghetto now lol. Bm will reap what they have sown in 2012. Anyway onto better things, well done to these unions all the best. That Chambers guy is so hot.

    • Makethepeace

      He is hot 

    • Anonymous

      I know..that story about 50 and Chelsea was priceless!

      Justin Chambers is gorgeous!

      • Desperatehousewife

        Whats the story about 50 and Chelsea.  I live abroad so I cant keep up with the news.  Tell me.

        • Anonymous

          He was dating her for awhile last year (although she always denied it and took pics kissing her real White boyfriend)  he started talking bad about Ciara who he used date and was coming on her show and Chelsea thought it was childish and dumped him and called him ”Ghetto” …she wouldn’t even talk to him after that.

          • Kelly

            LOL  only a white woman has that power to play you blacks 

          • Kelly

            All the black celebs ( not mixed race ) are ghetto.  Drake has a loving blonde middle class jewish mum. He is not Ghetto.  

            • Torontochick

              Drake is very ghetto, I assure you. People who come from Toronto do not speak with a blackcent; if he’s putting it on he’s a fraud. If he’s not then he must have been hanging out with some very untoward and ghetto people, thus making him ghetto as well.

            • Torontochick

              Drake is very ghetto, I assure you. People who come from Toronto do not speak with a blackcent; if he’s putting it on he’s a fraud. If he’s not then he must have been hanging out with some very untoward and ghetto people, thus making him ghetto as well.

          • Desperatehousewife

            ohhhhhhh….

            I never saw a man gossip like 50.  Honestly, I never heard a man run off at the mouth like him.  Has he dogged Chelsea like Vivica and Ciara?  Probably not.

            • Anonymous

              no…not that i know of…damn i forgot about Vivica.
              But you know what comes around goes around and now he’s being called sissy….fool and various other names on a lot of blogs and he’s looking real foolish right now and it serves him right. So between him and Seal the so called brothas are not having a good day  lol !

  • real!

    Black women stay married to white men because they see these men as the ultimate validation. There are MANY white men who are abusing their black wives and calling them n****r. Why do you think white women are filing for divorce in record numbers? White women don’t view these men as gods. These see them as ordinary men. Some good some bad. Black women have been brainwashed since slavery to see them as supermen.

    • junny

      Could you give some sweet with all that sour you are giving, bitter man.

    • Anonymous

      You mean like Terrence Howard’s wife was calling HIM a N****R and told him she didn’t want any N****R Kids?
      Or like that Black baseball player’s White wife who kept aborting all his kids because she didn’t want Black kids?
      You mean like that?

      • Kelly

        ouch, looks LIKE YOU blacks really get played by the whites.  LOL LOL  Even us mixed race people do not want to date u. 

        • Anonymous

          Get lost you’re just a lonely bitter BM …i really don’t have time for you.
          This story alone gets you….tee hee hee

          • Kelly

            I am mixed race, female and Danish.   TEEE HEEE and that makes you bitter  mad and envious. What with my long hair and light skin. 

            • ????

              Go bragg to the Danes and see how they treat you!!!!!

              • Kelly

                They treat me well. I am a dane 

              • Kelly

                I am from Denmark. I was born their; as was my dad and my mum was adopted by Danes.  Pure viking blood running in my veins. 

                • Torontochick

                  ROFL Pure Viking blood that is biracial? What in the world…?

                  • Torontochick

                    Comment on Stormfront, and I quote, “Send the mulattos to Latin America…”

                    You are delusional, sadly, and one of the unfortunate examples of where identity confusion comes in and what can go wrong when people of different races breed together. You are the reason I have been called selfish by those who oppose interracial unions – and I don’t even plan on having any kids!

                  • Torontochick

                    Comment on Stormfront, and I quote, “Send the mulattos to Latin America…”

                    You are delusional, sadly, and one of the unfortunate examples of where identity confusion comes in and what can go wrong when people of different races breed together. You are the reason I have been called selfish by those who oppose interracial unions – and I don’t even plan on having any kids!

                • Torontochick

                  ROFL Pure Viking blood that is biracial? What in the world…?

            • http://www.facebook.com/people/Casher-Oneil/100002427586133 Casher O’neil

              Please take your medication.

            • junny

              Are you creole girl on Media Take out?  LOL  I bet you are, what is your problem…oh.. sorry I don’t care.

              • Love_Sexy

                Oh my goodness she there too?……….LOL!

              • Kelly

                What is creole? What? 

            • Torontochick

              What the hell is wrong with you, seriously? Guess what, I have long hair and light skin. Do you see me going around everywhere thinking strangers on the internet are going to give a f**k about that? You must have very deep self-esteem issues because if you were truly confident that would radiate from within and you would not feel the need for validation or jealousy from others.

            • Torontochick

              What the hell is wrong with you, seriously? Guess what, I have long hair and light skin. Do you see me going around everywhere thinking strangers on the internet are going to give a f**k about that? You must have very deep self-esteem issues because if you were truly confident that would radiate from within and you would not feel the need for validation or jealousy from others.

          • Kelly

            Let’s just say i’m not….then what ? Okay what now ? Nothing that’s what I thought !! Dismissed !!

            • Anonymous

              Stop trying to get my attention dude..you’re pathetic!

          • Kelly

            GO and relax your hair. It is past 6 weeks and the naps are showing on the hairline

          • Kelly

            There was a great article in the Guardian newspaper ( UK ) about why black women suffer and are Angry black women like Michelle Obama. You should read it ……and the comments.

      • junny

        Which baseball player?

        • Anonymous

          I don’t know his name and this story hit about 3-4 years ago …she filed for divorce and once again said he was abusive ,,,he said that he gave her everything and just wanted kids but then it turned out she didn’t want Black kids and kept getting abortions..when I get time i’ll look it up.

    • Kelly

      If they are from Africa, they need their Green card…..they cannot dare rock the boat, or it is back to Africa. 

  • http://www.facebook.com/RosarioRed Rosario Stefania Scarsci

    Uh oh. 

  • Kelly

    In white culture….being white is the ultimate. In black culture being mixed is the ultimate. Hence the agenda’s 

    • Kcbbennett

      Hey Kelly, STOP GETTING UR NEWS FROM TYRA SHES BEEN OFF THERE AIR FOR YEARS

      • Kelly

        The panel of black women went on TYRA and said with her own mouth.  

        • Kcbbennett

          ITS BEEN OFF FOR 2 YRS!! Lmbao.. there is a reason..

    • Kcbbennett

      Lmbao that has to be there funniest thing ive read lol so all those white wives of pro athlete s are looking for there white man that can jump? Lol

  • Kelly

    I have read of black women that will only date or marry a white man – at all cost – to get a mix race baby. White women would never date / marry a black man because their agenda is to get a mixed baby.   Elin Nordegren has a swedish BF and would have survived having blonde kids. 

    • junny

      Could you give some sweet too with all that sour you are giving, bitter woman. lol

      • Kelly

        Maybe you an ask the angry black woman. LOL LOL 

  • Kelly

    White women  do not have to marry for an agenda, that is why they WILL and CAN walk away.   

  • Kelly

    To be fair, white women divorce more because they have the self worth and confidence to get out of a bad deal instead of trying to save face like black women. WW also have nothing to lose. They do need green cards like Thai or African women; They do have a racial complex about how there kids have to look like black women ( how many white women are ashamed to have kids who look like them? None, how many black women want kids with nice hair and skin?  

    They also know they will clean up in a divorce court. I will say courts will take care of a white woman more than any other gender, because the worth is higher. 

    WW do not have to save face. If they spilt from a  man of any race….they can always marry again. IF a BW splits from a white man…..then what? 

    • Kelly

      This is why 75% of divorces are called on by women – white women. They have self worth and nothing to lose.  Asian American women are starting divorce from white men in high numbers too. That make sense. Asian American  women are USA born citizen; they are some of the highest paid and educated women on earth. They CAN walk away. I have heard of African women in Europe staying with their husbands – even when he cheats; beats her and is not working, why? Because there Visa has not gone through.    White women do not need green cards and Visa, they are born western. 

      There was that story about the woman from Kenya who was married to a man from Norway who   beat her and locked in a basement. She could not report him because he threatened to get her deported.  WW do not have to go through that.  I have read of African women marrying gay white men to get green cards to the USA. 

      • Bridgettejones

        British Kelly. Your insecurities always shine when you comment. “How many white women are ashamed to have kids who look like them?” What the heck are you talking about?

        • Kelly

          I have seen black women go on Tyra saying they only date out of the race to have a baby with my type of hair ( I am mixed ) Do not be insecure. BW would prefer a kid to look like Nahla  ( Even Halle wanted a white kid ) Now  many white women trying to avoid white men to avoid having blonde kids with blue eyes?  

          • Kayla

            Go away Kelly you have mental health issues. Not even sure why you post so much rubbish on every black blog. Find an indian blog to discuss your type of affairs you know nothing about black people and spoil every thread you post on because you are so uneducated and ignorant. For the record most black women date, marry and have children with black men. Most Black men date, marry and have children with black women. Black people are the least likely to marry out and that is how it will remain.

            • Anonymous

              I think this is a jealous BM…they are so insecure and jealous about this subject they will sink to any level.

              • Love_Sexy

                Now that is a good point too…….LOL!

          • LIZ

            Not every black woman wants to water down her genetics. Seriously, so many black women’s DNA has been watered down already that if they may have a child with a white man they risk having a child that’s totally void of any melanin, full lips or pretty, nappy hair. Melanin is very important and very powerful!!!

        • Kelly

          White women do not mind giving birth to a pale kid with blonde hair and blue eyes. How many black women want to give birth to an Alek wek baby? 

          • Gonzalez

            You can say the same thing about your own people Kelly. Alek Wek is Sudanese. All Puerto Ricans want light skinned children with straight hair and light eyes which is why MEJORAR LA RAZA is a way of life for them. Mejorar La Raza means to marry white to improve the race, for those who don’t know.

          • junny

            Nuts! All that matters is that the kid is healthy, it’s a shame your mother didn’t wish that for you, because your mind is warped and jealous and it’s a shame, sour woman. :)

            • Kelly

              BW do not want black kids. That is why white women have to clean up your mess and adopt em. Do not like……..good hair, light eyes and kin are the definition of a healthy black baby. I have read what black women say about Kenzo lee vs Nahla Berry. Wow, BW are racist….to black babies. 

              • Leslie

                Not totally true. There are many black women out there who do NOT want to have a child with a white man. They’d rather have a that’s baby that looks more like them.

                On the other hand, you do have other sisters who are self-hating and delusional … but every sister who has a baby with a white man doesn’t fit into this category.

              • Pilar

                What’s the real motivation of some of these white women (and men) adopting black babies? Are they doing ritual work, building allies, etc.??? Hell, if a person think they are so much better parents (a lie given that black women have bathed, clothed, breast fed, raised, etc. white children since they stepped off the Mayflower) why not show parents, esp. in poorer regions how to uplift themselves? Instead, the European way is to come in take over but not show how to improve.

                • Kelly

                  Cleaning up black trash 

                  • Emines_

                    Isn’t one of your parents, and a whole side of your family (probably the only side who even wants to see you lol) BLACK? u need help… So sad…. lmao

                  • Neil

                    girl please, what you focus on expands.  you actually are so drawn to dark skin people with “nappy” hair. you love it! lol

            • Kelly

              How many black women adopt white a babies? NONE. How many white women adopt nappy haired black kids? Many  – including my grandmother. You hate yourself – even from birth. 

              • Tired..

                Kelly….you are disgusting!  I am sure many “white” people are ashamed of you…

              • Torontochick

                That doesn’t even make any logical sense – if black women don’t adopt white babies, wouldn’t that mean that it’s because they want babies who look like them? You are one dumb dumb.

                In any case, black women adopt white babies, too; it just doesn’t get much press. You can Google some examples, there are two famous ones that I know of.

              • Torontochick

                That doesn’t even make any logical sense – if black women don’t adopt white babies, wouldn’t that mean that it’s because they want babies who look like them? You are one dumb dumb.

                In any case, black women adopt white babies, too; it just doesn’t get much press. You can Google some examples, there are two famous ones that I know of.

          • Imma Troll Let’s Fight!

            Kelly your mother should have swallowed you! In failing that you daddy should have shot you on the sheets. You the reason why abortion will always be legal. Too bad your mom didn’t use a coat hanger and a bottle of bleach she could have spared us all a big headache.

      • I live here

        I really wanna see this lil girl over here in the UK and let her tell me all those racist things she says about black people and see if she’ll survive. People like got mouth behind their keyboard catch you in the street a real chicken.

        • Kelly

          I will call scotland yard and we all know how heavy handed police are with you. 

        • Kelly

          The UK riots started when a 14 year old black girl ran her mouth to police. They beat her up and that is what kicked off the riots. 

        • Love_Sexy

          Kelly likes to spread alot of poison just like you said behind the “keyboard”…..He/she or it (Maybe someone whose has been planted) goes on Bossip and be talking the same garbage……….They all think she is a lunatic basket case there who forgets to take her medication…….I tell you the internet brings out all kind of looney birds don’t it?….. Please ignore her……LOL!

          • Kelly

            I am telling the truth, What about what the white men are saying about you on TMZ, Daily mail, Huffington post etc?

            What about white men making fun of the African nurse who was crushed to death while trying to get a university place for her only son? 

            • Love_Sexy

              LOL!

          • Desperatehousewife

            But like Caribbean In Th eHouse, she should be ignored then she will go away

            • Love_Sexy

              Co-sign!

      • Torontochick

        I was born Western and I’m still dead ashamed of the divorce rate – marriage is sacred. And I have nothing against white women either in fact some of my best female friends are white but that aspect of Western culture needs to change. Don’t get married if you’re not sure lifelong commitment is for you! I honestly have to wonder what happened to you and where your mother went so wrong in raising you that you would celebrate divorce, promiscuity, deportation, abuse, and the like. Very troubled girl, it’s unfortunate:( I hope that following the inevitable dumping you will endure when your partner realizes that you’re bat$hit crazy that you seek out the therapy you so desperately need.

      • Torontochick

        I was born Western and I’m still dead ashamed of the divorce rate – marriage is sacred. And I have nothing against white women either in fact some of my best female friends are white but that aspect of Western culture needs to change. Don’t get married if you’re not sure lifelong commitment is for you! I honestly have to wonder what happened to you and where your mother went so wrong in raising you that you would celebrate divorce, promiscuity, deportation, abuse, and the like. Very troubled girl, it’s unfortunate:( I hope that following the inevitable dumping you will endure when your partner realizes that you’re bat$hit crazy that you seek out the therapy you so desperately need.

  • luvmyrace

    I don’t care what race has the highest divorce rate, but I am curious about your research. I hope your using more than one source. It just seems like your letting ignorance blind your judgement.

  • Kelly

    These are not hollywood marriages. Hollywood marriages are when both are stars living a life that is not the norm. Only Robin and Paula come close and she is half white. There are a lot of blinds about Robin cheating on her with young models in NYC hotels and Paula being back on coke. Her career is taking off and his has stalled so we will see where this goes. 

  • Antonio

    According to the latest statistics by the Assisted Divorce Agency the breakdown of marriages in the US is as follows: Whites 27%
                        African Americans 22%
                         Hispanics 20%

    • Kelly

      It is says the  same on the huffington post.

  • Mario

    The only reason why black female/white male marriages have a low divorce
    rate is because IT’S NOT THAT MANY OF THEM. So because the number of
    white men married to black women is so small, when they divorce nobody
    notices it within divorce statistics because the pairing is so small.
    Logic dictates that if more black women marry white men then their
    divorce rate will go up.

    Discussing black women married to white
    men is kind of like discussing the graduation rates of small liberal
    arts college. These schools have high graduation rates within four years
    because their student body population is small. As long as universities
    keep the student body size to a minimum they can maintain their high
    graduation rates. On the other hand, if they double their student
    population size the graduation rate is going to take a hit.This is why
    larger universities across America have lower graduation rates than
    smaller schools.

    So because the number of black women married to
    white men is relatively small,(especially when compared to other
    groups) their divorce rate is going to appear smaller than everyone
    else. If marriages involving white men and black women grows so will
    their divorce rate. This is simple logic people but many of you refuse
    to face reality.

    This idea that black women and white men are
    more compatible is amusing at best. Especially considering that African
    American have the highest rate of divorce in America. And please note
    I’m not highlight the 70% divorce rate as evidence. No. According to the
    last Census, black women have the highest rate of divorce rate of any
    race of woman in the United States. This stat includes black women
    married to non black men.

    No matter who black women date they can’t keep it together. That’s a fact.

    • Kayla

      Sorry Mario but you are not making sense and do not understand basic maths. The high success rate of white male/black female marriages has nothing to do with them being in low numbers that makes no sense. They last because they tend to be two people who are statistically more affluent, more stable and often well educated.It has nothing to do with being low in numbers. If that was the case the larger number of black men married to white women would have higher success rates because they are more of them but these unions have the highest rate of divorce. Black women do not have the highest divorce rate and never have.White women have higher divorce rates. Black women having to wait longer and often into their forties to marry ensures that they are not experiencing higher rates of divorce than white women.. Please check this yourself in the Howard university report done by Dr Ivory Toldson into black marriage.You are speaking for the sake of it with no basis in fact.

      • Latestaddition

        Absolutely Correct.  The reason why marriages like mine last is because black women/white men marriages overwhelmingly involve higher educated, higher income individuals.  Bw/ww marriages are 44% LESS likely to divorce than white women/ white men.  And when comparing all racial dynamics, white women/ black men couples are the highest to divorce.  And highest divorce rates involve white women.  Also bw/ww couples typically enter marriage in their 30s.  I have been married to my white husband for 5 years and I see us lasting til the end of time.  Simply because we are on the same path regarding finances, furture goals, etc. 

      • Mario

        You’re wrong and you don’t understand statistics. Any statistician would
        argue my point of view because they understand numbers. You’re
        promoting marriages between black women and white men but you aren’t
        discussing these couples also DIVORCE. In order to gauge whether these
        couples have successful marriages you have to look at the overall
        quantity (volume) of marriages involving said parties versus the divorce
        rate. The stats you’re talking about Kayla are a distortion of the
        truth because the overall volume of married couples involving a black
        woman and white man is SMALL. What don’t you understand about it being
        small? If the volume of couples is small then their divorce rate is
        going to be small when compared to other groups because marriages
        involving other pairings of mixed race couples is larger. This is simple
        logic and it’s clear that it’s over your level of comprehension.

        Just like you’re totally off about black women not having the highest
        rate of divorce. Do you know the black divorce rate is 70%? Seven out of
        ten marriages in black community fail within the first few years. Do
        you understand that?

        Likewise, it was reported in the latest Census Report that black women
        have the highest rates of divorce in America. How do you not know this
        and it was featured across black blogs on the internet? Here’s a link
        for you:

        http ://elev8(.)com/spirit/relationships-daily-offering/elev8-staff/census-says-black-women-divorce-more-than-any-other-race/

        This is part of the problem with black women today. Too many of you
        think you know what you’re talking about when in reality you’re
        misinformed. You women believe what you want to believe when it fits
        with your ideal perspective of things. Too bad your ideal perspective
        isn’t reality.

        • Kayla

          Mario are you even a man why are you on a thread about black women. You need to find a job or a hobby.The exact stats for divorce rates in America are these.
          Whites 27%  African Americans 22 Hispanics 20%. 
          Black women have never had 70 percent divorce rates you are now lying for the sake of it. I am not in any way a supporter of mixed marriages but facts are facts. There is no statistical fact about the low number equating to why their divorce rate is low you sound uneducated. The rate is low because the couples obviously for whatever reason work together well enough to stay married. Couples who have something in common, respect, maturity and mutual well being last. Now go find something constructive to do with your live.

          • Mario

            Why are you worried about my job? You’re on here just like me so why don’t you go work a job. Oh, i forgot. I bet you’re one of those welfare moms. Bwahahahaha

            Anyways those stats you’re citing are old and out of date. I know what site you got that information from and those stats are from ten years ago, stupid. How about you go on a real website with up to date numbers.

            http://www divorce360 (.)com/divorce-articles/news/trends/african-americans-and-marriage.aspx?artid=1176

            Now read current statistics and have a seat because you’re a LIAR. I don’t need to make fake stats because i provide sources and you haven’t provided 1 link to validate what you’re saying. You’re just mad marriages involving black women don’t last.

            • Celsetra12

              Does anyone post on bossip. I think Mario may be that crazy guy Daywalker who posts under 50 different names and really hates black women. His story is that he is very obese and cannot get a black women to date him and pretends to be an engineer but posts on bossip all day everyday.

              • Kayla

                Daywalker or Gaywalker and Mario are the same person. It is very sad and they seem to be mentally unstable in their hatred of black women. I think he gave himself away because what type of man uses  comments like 
                Bwahahahaha only GAYWALKER.

                • Reecie

                   Sad but typical. This is why so many White people have problems with many Black men. I heard one say that they see a problem with a  man who can’t respect women of his own race. I was thinking, darn why did a White woman have to read him his rights like that? SMH

                  • http://howhereallythinks.com/ Jamel Mont

                     Haha. Your point is White Men respect their women?? He has her under a gag order like a slave, she can’t even openly speak to us in public and she’s a grown a$$ woman.  She had to fight for her right to vote like we did lol…He’s killing a new one every week on the news or kidnapping and raping her babies. Ha, PLEASE! Wake up sis, you’re dreaming and sound brainwashed!

          • Anonymous

            Because he’s jealous at seeing BW/WM in solid marriages in the face of so many BM/WW busting apart at the seams publicly…that’s why they come to a WOMAN”S website to weep and moan…so pathetic!

            • Kelly

              What about public black women in hollywood? Whoopi. Diana, Naomi Campbell ( before the russian ) Janet, Halle, Zoe Saldana, Garcelle, Stacey?  

              • Torontochick

                What about the fact that your mother probably gave you up for adoption because she could fortell what a psychotic b%!@# you would become?

          • junny

            They do not get it Kayla, if they are saying bw/wm have lower divorce rates because they are less, well bm/ww have higher divorce rates than ww/wm, so their reasoning does not stack up because it should mean since there are less bm/ww marriages they should have a lower divorce rate than ww/wm, but they do not.

            When certain pairings have high divorce rates there are other factors involved and you have to look for the pattern, it’s not simply about them being more or less.

          • REALTALK

             HE NEEDS SOME PSYCHOLOGICAL AND SOCIAL EVALUATION AND ASSESSMENTS, TO FIGURE OUT WHY HE HAS ISSUE WITH THE ONE SOLID, CONSTRUCTIVE AND BINDING FORCE OF HIS RACE. THE BLACK WOMAN.

            I’VE SEEN ALOT OF SPECIALS ON TV AND ALTHOUGH THEY DINT SAY IT EXPLICITLY THEY ALL ALLUDE TO THE PROBLEM IN OUR COMMUNITY AS BEING THE BLACK MAN. IT’S TO FEW OF THEM IN THE HOME FOR STARTERS AND THAT’S THE MOST CRITICAL PART OF ANY COMMUNITY ASIDE FROM GOD. THE FAMILY. MOST OF BLACK HOMES HAVE JUST ONE PARENT IN THEM. WHERE THE F IS THE FATHER? HUSBAND? FOR ONE MANY OF THEM HAVE TO MANY CHILDREN OUT OF WEDLOCK. THAT IS JUST…GIRL, SMH…THEN FOR SOME OF THEM WHO DON’T, MANY DONT MARRY THE GIRL THEY LAID WITH THEY RUN TO F SOME MORE WITH OTHERS AND GET THOSE PREGNANT…MEANWHILE THAT WOMAN ISN’T MARRIED, THAT CHILD HAS NO IN HOUSE FATHER WHICH MAKES A TON OF DIFFERENCE IN THEIR LIVES BELIEFS AND PREPARATION FOR LIFE AND THE FAMILY IS SPLIT. NON EXISTENT IN THAT HOUSEHOLD.

            HOW MANY WHITE MEN DO YOU KNOW CREATE THIS KIND OF DIS FUNCTION IN THEIR COMMUNITY???

            WHEN WHITE MEN CHEAT, THEY ARE USUALLY ALREADY MARRIED AND GOING FROM 1 FAMILY TO ANOTHER.

        • REALTALK

           THE REASON BLACK WOMEN MAY HAVE THE HIGHEST RATES OF DIVORCE IS BECAUSE THEY ARE MARRIED TO WHO? BLACK MEN. BLACK MEN ARE VERY HARD TO DATE MARRY AND REMAIN MARRIED TO. MANY OF THEM ARE LAZY FOR ONE. THE AVERAGE COLLEGE IN AMERICA HAS A RATIO OF 4:1 FOR BLACK MEN TO BLACK WOMEN AT THE LEAST. SOME AS WORST AS 14:1. MANY OF THESE MEN DON’T EVEN RESPECT THEMSELVES ENOUGH TO EARN AN EDUCATION IN A WORLD THAT DEMANDS IT, BUT WANT TO LIVE UNDER A WOMAN WHO’S MAKING HERS. OR EVEN A WOMAN ON WELFARE. WHAT A SISSY! THAT’S NOT MAN. THAT’S A BABY! EVEN WORSE MANY HAVE DIED GIVING US A RIGHT TO HAVE EQUALITY BUT SOME STILL WILL SIT ON T HEIR LAURELS BEFORE SEEKING AN EDUCATION! NOT TO MENTION MANY HAVE SO MANY CHILDREN YOU DON’T WANT HIM AND THE BAGGAGE. THEN ADD ALL THE DIFFERENT WOMEN HE’S HAD THE CHILDREN WITH. SO MANY WOMEN TO DEAL WITH IT’S JUST SAD. SO MANY CHILDREN WHO WON’T HAVE THEIR FATHERS RAISING THEM, SAD SAD SAD! THEN SO MANY DON’T EVEN WANT TO TAKE CARE OF THEIR CHILDREN, BUT THEY WANT SOCIETY TO RESPECT THEM AND SUCH. YOU BLACK MEN WANT TO BLAME ALL OF YOUR PROBLEMS ON THE WHITE MAN AND THE BLACK WOMAN. MAN UP! YOU MANY OF Y-O-U ARE THE PROBLEM! START BEING RESPONSIBLE! ACCOUNTABLE! STOP BLAMING OTHERS AND LOOK IN THE MIRROR! THE REASON SOME OF YOU ARE RUNNING TO OTHER RACES ISN’T BECAUSE OF THE BLACK WOMAN BUT BECAUSE YOU DON’T BELIEVE THAT BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL. YOU BELIEVE IT’S BEAUTIFUL UNTIL YOU BECOME EDUCATION, RICH OR POWERFUL. THEN THE TROPHY IS WHITE, LATINA OR ASIAN. MEAN ING, YOU NEVER THOUGHT MUCH OF YOUR DARN SELF. YOU WANT TO WHITE WASH YOUR OWN GENES TO CREATE CHILDREN THAT DOESN’T LOOK LIKE YOU. BUT IN THE END, YOU STILL HAVE MAJOR ISSUES, BLACK WOMEN ARE TO BLAME AND SO ARE WHITE PEOPLE. PLEASE SOCIETY AS A WHOLE ARE TIRED OF THE LAME, IRRESPONSIBLE BLACK MAN, THE GOOD DECENT BLACK MAN EXISTS BUT HE IS SO FAR AND FEW BETWEEN. AND EVEN HE IS EMBARRASSED BY WHAT MOST OTHER BLACK MALES ARE DOING. GO SOMEONE AND LEARN HOW TO BE MEN. THIS IS ONE AREA WHERE I FEEL BLACK MEN COULD LEARN SOMETHING FROM WHITE MEN. SAD TO SAY BUT TRUE. NOW YOU CAN PUT THAT IN YOUR PIPE AND SMOKE IT.

        • Raberyleti

          And what you don’t understand you dumb, ignorant, racist is white women stay in horrifc marriages much longer then a black woman will EVER tolerate.  If you have a mistress, it’s ok with white women; if you smack them, they’ll take it just as long as you keep providing some sense of security for them no matter how false that sense of security is.  Most of the white women I know no matter how educated, beautiful or world wise they are will NEVER be as strong as a black woman who is able to hold her own against anything and anyone. 

    • ImaaLin

      Kayla owned the hell out of your comment. 

    • real!

      The true reason black women stay married to white men longer than white women do is because once a sister marries a white dude she does ANYTHING to keep him. He become her ultimate validation and reason for living. Losing him would be unbearable so she puts up with his racist BS. Stacey Dash stayed married for 5 years to a white man she said beat her every day.

      • Anonymous

        Like Heidi Klum stayed with Seal who has been abusive  for 7 years…NEXT!!

        • guest

          She did marry an African!!!

          • Anonymous

            I had no idea he was an African..I actually thought he was English.

            • Kelly

              I thought he was from London. 

              • Emines_2

                He is. He was adopted by a white family when he was like 4 or sthg.

              • rain

                I  think they mean African, as in race

      • junny

        Very untrue. they just connect on the same level, I think bw/wm relationships are less showy, the real ones are not attention seeking and very private about their relationship, this is why there are many of these unions that no one ever knows about and are surprised when they find out.

        • Kelly

          Even Stacey dash, Halle, Diana Ross  – twice, Sinitta – twice, Whoopi Goldberg, Janet jackson, latoya Jackon, Naomi Campell – several times, Zoe Saldana,  Thandie Newon   – her first white BF,  Garcelle Beauvais, Tyra Banks and that Italian, Dorothy Dandrige, Lena Horne, ?

          • I live here

            You are not black but you know so many black entertainers you ‘re one of those mixed race confused kids who reject one part of their heritage sad you need counselling . I bet you get your lil feelings hurt when your white friends say you’re not white cos they see you like white people see Obama and that’s black you must really hate it. I feel sorry for you that’s why you’re so disturbed poor thing…

            • Kelly

              My friends  think I am South America as I look it.  Obama is mixed.  You wll never have a black president with a black mum.

            • MyaFace

              You read her right, too! She stated she was of mixed race in some of her latter comments…Wow. Ha ha. Po’ chile (poor child)…*wisdom.

      • Desperatehousewife

        You’re right, I’ll do anything to keep my husband.  He works hard to provide for his family, ensures we have a secure future, spends adequate time with his children, takes interest in our children’s lives, provides love and care.  Oh and makes a very decent living.  He never has to rely on others to take care of his home.  He is a wonderful man and a white one by that.  So you are right.  I have to agree with you,  losing my man will be unbearable.

        • Kelly

          Blacks are just jealous of whites. Those Americans think they can talk that tough stuff with us Europeans but it will not work. Blacks no place in Europe. In Europe, blacks do not even have careers, but they are happy to accept what is given; you do not seem them trying to start a war. The UK is another problem. They want some power to make a point to the black americans. 

          How many black women in Europe have successful careers? NONE. But they are happy to live on European soil ( which is a blessing in itself)

          Blacks in europe know their place. Why cant americans be like that too?

          • http://www.facebook.com/people/Casher-Oneil/100002427586133 Casher O’neil

            You are really crazy.  And you can’t even spell properly.

            • Love_Sexy

              Co-sign again!………Very sad isn’t it.

          • Tired..

            Are you really ignorant?….Nahhh….stupid as hell!

        • Kelly

          Black women in Europe have respect for white and mixed girls. They accept they are gorgeous and naturally more desired; it is not racist…just the way it is. 

          Blacks in the UK  /USA are trying to start a race war on white women are of envy and jealous, they even call white women ” becky ” Who does that?  So immature. 

          In every European county – white women are the dominate beauties. Black women are cool respectful of this. American black women seem furious and mad. 

        • Kelly

          You know I am right. Black women in Europe ( Belgium, Denmark etc ) no their place and have respect for white and half white women like me. 

          In Denmark…all house cleaners are black women, they are always nice and smiley. They are just grateful we took them out their horrid lives back home. 

           In the UK, they say us mixed race people are better looking and more successful. We are also the largest minority – we have out bred the blacks ( yes! )   

          Everyone respect white and half white women….except black women in the usa. 

          • Tired..

            Really…. I have lived in Europe…..and you are full of it!  Someone should have “bred” out ignorance or stupidity.  You are at the top of the list!  ….2nd…If you are of mixed race, that is (whether black/hispanic/asian/whatever), that is their heritage.

        • Anonymous

          You go gurl!

        • Raberyleti

          You never mentioned that he loves you or that you love him.  Very, very sad. 

    • junny

      Percentage wise for the amount of black females and white females in the US shows that bw date out more than white women percentage wise. Now if you want to dismiss percentage as not being valuable, then is should be dismissed when people are talking about crime or other unsavory things, but will all know people like to push their agenda when it suits them. Fact bw and bm date out more than wm and ww percentage wise.

      • Kelly

        And why is that? Blacks are jealous and insecure and trying to be like the white. 

    • Raberyleti

      Sorry, I’ve been married to the same man for 24 years and have 3 handsome, smart, compassionate, kind, productive sons.  I wouldn’t stop to spit on a white man.  All I would be able to see when he was screwing me would be the pasty white Massa who f@#$%^ black women at will and created babies that he could sell.  Just not interested. 

    • Its_Me

      Blah, Blah, Blah….
      Black folks hate each other.. admit it!

  • Kayla

    There is no point showing black women with white husbands, statistically they have a high rate of having long term marriages. Black men marry white women more but alas seem unable to hang onto them but you still should have included Sidney Poitier or Cuba Gooding (actually any of the actors in Redtails).
    Expect mad Indian Kelly in 5, 4, 3, 2…..

    • Mario

      The only reason why black female/white male marriages have a low divorce rate is because IT’S NOT THAT MANY OF THEM. So because the number of white men married to black women is so small, when they divorce nobody notices it within divorce statistics because the pairing is so small. Logic dictates that if more black women marry white men then their divorce rate will go up.

      Discussing black women married to white men is kind of like discussing the graduation rates of small liberal arts college. These schools have high graduation rates within four years because their student body population is small. As long as universities keep the student body size to a minimum they can maintain their high graduation rates. On the other hand, if they double their student population size the graduation rate is going to take a hit.This is why larger universities across America have lower graduation rates than smaller schools.

      So because the number of black women married to white men is relatively small,(especially when compared to other groups) their divorce rate is going to appear smaller than everyone else. If marriages involving white men and black women grows so will their divorce rate. This is simple logic people but many of you refuse to face reality.

      This idea that black women and white men are more compatible is amusing at best. Especially considering that African American have the highest rate of divorce in America. And please note I’m not highlight the 70% divorce rate as evidence. No. According to the last Census, black women have the highest rate of divorce rate of any race of woman in the United States. This stat includes black women married to non black men.

      No matter who black women date they can’t keep it together. That’s a fact.

       

      • luvmyrace

        Poor thing, you really did your research didn’t you? You must like a black girl that doesn’t give you any attention. Don’t waste your time, black women know that white men are crazy as hell…that’s why you don’t see too many black women with white men. Marriage is a european thing…blacks we just go with the flow.

        • Adelmonica19

          It’s thinking like that causes so many black women to be baby mamas. Thhumbs down to ur comment!

          • luvmyrace

            In this day and age people don’t take marriage seriously! As a 36 year old female I went through life seeing my parents, uncles, aunts divorce. I personally believe in common law marriage. I have been with my common law husband for 16 years we have an eight year old son and another one on the way…and we like it like that. To each his own, thank you.

      • ImaaLin

        Using a false number, if most interracial unions were made up of black women/white men and the rate was 56% and of that 56% only 30% ended in divorce that would mean most black female/white male relationships didn’t last. It has nothing to do with there not being a large amount of this type of relationship. 

        • Wow!

          Thank you for correcting that, their lack of any knowledge in math was hurting my soul. That’s probably why America is rated 16 in educaton. Smh

      • Anonymous

        You mean like Micheal Strahand, Tiger Woods, Kobe Bryant, Tony Parker, and SEAL ?

      • Brownie2shasta

        You are an idiot, it does not matter the number, but of those that exist, their marriages last LONGER and are more SUCCESSFUL then black men with basically…ANYONE and that is a FACT! Since you don’t like black women then why are you here? Take your a** to blackfoolsvent or something…

    • Guest

      I also noticed that most of the actors in Redtails are with white women in real life. Not that it’s bad, I’m just saying.

      • Chanttillylace

         I would say it’s bad. How many White men do you see running after other races of women? Not many. Now add to it White men who run after the race of women who they were suppressed in slavery by? None. Ok lets see how about White men who run after that race AFTER they become rich? Famous? All of the above.

        Say what you want but White men seem to have more d#m sense than the average Black man.

        • overman1

          you sound like a fool….

  • Pfeiffer87

    Interesting that all these couples involve black women with white men when everyone on this blog is always moaning about black men going after white women!

    • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_3EHQVSA365QAAO7CZUYW33EF5M Jonna

      My mom is Black and pop is Italian. been together 32 years……go figure. Guess it pokes a hole in the whole “black women are too independent for relationships” theory.

      • IllyPhilly

        Amen!

        • KIR12

          The only difference between black men
          and black women is that a lot of black men are upfront about their
          openness to date interracially. Black women try to claim loyalty
          to shame black men into exclusively dating only black women and I guess
          to hide (for some reason) their embarrassment of dating interracially to
          other black women & men. The truth is IMO black women, as a group,
          are just as open to dating interracially as any other races of women no
          more nor less. Think I’m lying? Go to any interracial romance dating
          site. 98% of the women ARE BLACK! LMAO Also, 95% of the men are black.
          Which means the few white guys that are on the site can pretty much have
          their pick of thousands of black women on there. I’m absolutely certain
          that’s exactly what they’re doing dating multiple black women. What man
          wouldn’t….

          • Brownie2shasta

            I have never hid or have been ashamed of my love for white men…other black women also feel the same way…

    • Dwayne

      It’s because this website promotes the idea that black women and white men are naturally compatiable and soul mates whereas black men and white women come together for sexual and/or monetary reasons. It’s a double standard that black websites and their female users openly embrace.

      • Anonymous

        This is a Black Woman’s website….why are you here complaining to begin with?

        • fanmail

          *dead*

          • Anonymous

            no..very much alive and making a valid point!

            • fanmail

              *dead* = too funny for words.

        • http://twitter.com/2ndclarence CJ Baldwin

          GTFOH…women complain on ‘male’ locations like Men’s Health or male only (supposedly) YouTube posts, etc etc etc. You’ve never found anything you couldn’t/wouldn’t yap about if it didn’t suit your rigid needs. Dwayne’s point was just as ‘valid’. Why is that double standard in place? Black women don’t say a thing if one of their own dates non-black men, but some will act as if Satan himself tried to kill their first-born if they see a black man with a white woman (don’t get it twisted, it’s not Latinas and Asians you’re getting bent over…). And it’s always sour grapes, petty excuses, or stereotypes/generalizations we’re ALL trying to get beyond that get used. Like sex and money being the only reasons. 

          • Lacey_Johnson

            Please black women do not have a problem of black men dating white women or any other the problem comes when black men like to degrade their own race of women when they date outside their race I have never seen a race of men disrespect their women so much you hear all these rappers saying like lil wayne that dark skin women are ugly the lighter you are the better plenty of other rappers say that black women are to rude loud disrespectful you ever heard of Tommy Sayor I think that’s his last name he constantly degrades black women and guess what there are tons of black men who agree!! they have dated one black women now we are all wrong and evil if black men would just date outside their race and stop saying such negative things about black women then it would be better because guess what other races hear this stuff and they laugh at us not just as black women but at black men because they see how divide they are they see how black men put us down and then we cry about how we want everyone to treat us as one we can’t even love ourselves you can date outside your race have fun! just stop degrading black women with other races are around do you know how that looks if you go on YouTube right now there are hundreds upon hundreds of videos of black men just tearing down black women it is disgusting and look at the comments what do you see everyone agreeing shocker!

    • IllyPhilly

      I know, I’ve said that for awhile. Lots of rich (the Norton guy, George Lucas, etc.) white men get beautiful Black women just like Rich black men get pretty white women.

      • Kelly

        Lot’s? That was 2. I thought you were going to name 100. Beautiful? Is George lucas and the norton guy married to beautiful women?

        • Love_Sexy

          LOL!

      • Kelly

        Halle is the most beautful black woman – even stacey dash, thandie newton and Zoe saldana. Who are they married to? Are they married?

        • IllyPhilly

          Stacey divorced her white guy. The other two are dating their white guys. I was giving examples. type in white guys with black girls and you’ll find a fuller list. yes both their women are beautiful unless you got a problem with dark-skinned ladies.

          • Kelly

            Melody Hobson is no beauty and you know it. 

            • IllyPhilly

              CTFU its cuz she’s old.

              • Kelly

                No, Demi moore is old and she is a beauty

                • Girliusmaximus

                   I don’t agree with that… she is one plastic surgery away from falling over the edge. Maybe it was her time w/Ashton but she aint looking too hot.

                • Girliusmaximus

                   I don’t agree with that… she is one plastic surgery away from falling over the edge. Maybe it was her time w/Ashton but she aint looking too hot.

                • Guesswho

                   I agree demi is older and like Melonie they both are cute. I hope I look  half good as they do at that point in my life.

                • neverlie

                  Yeah and if she wasn’t rich and vain, she’d look exactly like you, no beauty.

            • guess

               You know Melonie is a cutie! She reminds me of a Black…a Black version of some celeb I just can’t put my finger on it.

        • LaLaLaMeansILoveYou

          Also Heather Headley is married to a caucasian man and Robert Deniro has an AA wife. This list could’ve been way longer.

    • Anonymous

      Like When? Please give examples..
      FYI …this is a Black Woman’s Blog so why wouldn’t they do stories about BW relationships? ..there are other sites where you can get want.

      • Pfeiffer87

        Because the article is title ‘Interracial Couples’. The Taye Diggs article to name one, there are loads more, you only have to read the comments.

        • Anonymous

          1. What about Taye Diggs?…he made some silly remarks and people….BW to be exact were responding to the stupid ish he said… since this IS A BLACK WOMAN”S  BLOG !!  One example of something stupid he said was when he blamed BW for the cacellation of his show…I believe he also said that BW disliked and were jealous of his wife….any other race of any other people would respond in a bad way also…
          Now..what other examples can you give since you say there are ”loads more”?

    • Melissa

      So, so, so over sites pushing this black women-white men stuff. Please stop with this propaganda. Every black woman is not interested in dating, marrying and having babies with black men. So stop shoving it down our throats!

      • MELISSA

        Meant to say that every black woman isn’t interested in dating, marrying or having babies with WHITE men.

        • Kelly

          Oh please, how you going to get rid of your nappy hair that needs relaxing every 6 weeks  – or when wet

          • Emines_2

            Nothing wrong with my nappy hair.. I LOVE it :) 

          • Melissa

            @Kelly, My hair is representative of what you people call god. period. I had a relaxer and was curious about my coily natural hair. Been without a relaxer for 20 years. Haven’t looked back. Love it! Want children with head full of coils like me! You should try it!

          • Brownie2shasta

            Or you washing yours on the daily in order to prevent LICE BUILD UP perhaps? Oh and that nasty oily smell…YUCK! ewwwww!!!

    • Guess

       Of course they do!  What other race of men stupid enough to run after the very race that said they were monkeys and 2/3rds of a human? Black men. Even White people comment about how stupid it looks, although they say it to themselves and really, bash alot of these men. Not for dating a White woman per say, but I have heard how they resent how alot of Black men reduce the community by not raising the kids, not financing their kids livelihood, turning to drugs, creating all these children they can’t take care of, you see one thing about White people, is that they are responsible! Yeah they can be low down but they take d#m care of their kids and family. And they work and not the janitor, they have enough work ethic to manage the janitors on t he district level or own the company. And when he or other Black people like me hear about folks getting robbed, drug deals with all these Black young males, we all get mad. Where the heck is his dad? Oh I forgot, running after the same race who said he looks like a Monkey and raped his mom. Smh.