Aisha Tyler Uses Interracial Marriage to Support Gay Marriage

January 11th, 2012 - By Brande Victorian

Aisha Tyler is one of the latest celebrities to join the Human Rights Campaign’s Americans for Marriage Equality Campaign. In her PSA, the 41-year-old co-host of “The Talk” draws on her personal experience of being in an interracial relationship to draw a parallel between the right to marry someone of a different race with the right to marry someone of the same sex. She says:

“I’m married and my husband is white. But did you know that 40 or 50 years ago in many American states it was illegal for black people and white people to marry?

“Well now we have that same injustice here in the United States, because gays can’t marry each other in many states. And I support marriage equality because I believe that everybody should have the right to marry who they love.”

Not long after, the comedian comes out of Aisha when she says:

“So let’s save traditional marriage by letting gays marry, because we straight people are f***ing it up.”

Jokes aside, a lot of people have taken issue with the comparison of gay rights to various aspects of African Americans’ struggles in society. Interracial marriage obviously isn’t just a black and white thing, but it will be interesting to see how people respond to her specific message.

Do you think the fight for interracial marriage and gay marriage are the same?

Brande Victorian is a blogger and culture writer in New York City. Follower her on Twitter at @be_vic.

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  • http://www.facebook.com/RosarioRed Rosario Stefania Scarsci

    Aisha Tyler really needs to sit down. Seriously…you only married a white man for the trophy status. 

  • Sdennis334

    I am so sick of people claiming that gays are trying marginalize the struggles of Africans and African Americans. The comparison is a tool to show that gays are experiencing similar struggles as we did, and they are in need of advocates, just like we needed others to stand up for us as well.  Homosexuality is not a choice. Research sexual orientation and you will find that there is information to prove that it is biological.

     Same-sex marriage isn’t Biblical, but perhaps you Bible thumpers should realize that the law and religion are not one in the same. Gays aren’t bullying Christians into allowing them to get married in the church. They want to be recognized as equals under the law. They want respect and acceptance.  The Bible was used to justify slavery and it forced Africans to stop practicing their traditional religions as well. But if ‘times have changed’ and slavery is no longer right, why can’t we accept that times have changed and homosexuality is no longer wrong?

    • Georgecastanza

      Once you said BIBLE THUMPERS, as if to disrespect us Christians, you lost my attention. If people want support for anything they shouldnt disrespect others in the process.

      • Sdennis334

        I am not intending to disrespect all Christians, I am stating that there are some people who mix religion and politics…which is why there is so much confusion about the subject  of gay marriage. If you are a Christian who understands that church and state are separate, the comment wasn’t intended for you. That’s all.

        • Georgecastanza

          It wasnt your comment that offended me.  It was the word bible thumper. If i was talking about a homosexual and used the words @$$ vandal, can I override by saying it wasnt intended for you.
           

  • Leanne

    I do not support nor do I oppose gay marriage. I do not agree w homosexuality for myself, but to each its own. God made me unique, and gave me the ability to chose between right and wrong. I would like to think that most of the time I chose right, but I know that there are plenty of time that I do not. I am a sinner. I need to work on myself getting closer to god. I don’t believe that I could do this if I spend my time being consumer by others sins. God said to not judge, and America is the land of equal rights for everyone. Let America stand by which it supports, and in the end God will judge us all based upon the freedoms that we took. 

  • Lorenzo

    Bussymommy, understand the logic behind your response.

    Maybe the stop to think processes would prevail, and that is my primary point. Ms. Tyler evidently was interviewed for a reason (interacial union I suspect) but IMO to lump that union with the plight of the LGBT community is a stretch and a long one. If a gay couple gets married they need to be able to balance thier check book too.I have always heard you cannot control whom the heart love. In that same realm, if you love it do the things to keep it. People have a tendency to cherish and keep safe major expenditures/purchases. Treat your love and life in that mindset, if you are serious prepare for the long hall. If you can’t balance your check book don’t get married.

    The comparison of the interracial union with same sex union and the 50 years ago analogy. I am going to assume Ms. Tyler is working on her routine for entertaiment or her quote was taken out of context. If that is how she see it , so sad.

    • Bussymommy

      Gosh, it was a joke. Corny joke, but a joke.

  • Realife

    No, no , no. I wish people would stop comparing black people to gay people as this is a very misguided analogy. It irks me even more when it comes from a black person. Race and sexual orientation are not the same people!!

    • Bussymommy

      agreed

  • Lorenzo

    How about putting parameters on getting married that will influence the success of that union. If you can’t balance your check book you should not get married. If you don’t take care of you kids from a previous union you can’t get married until  you have provided data to support that you can and are doing so. If you don’t have a job you definitely cannot get married. If you live with you parents and have not established your on residence, you can’t get married until you have done so.(this fosters independence and a source of self reliance)……,.

    Take it away my friends

    • Bussymommy

      At that rate no one will marry…lol