7 Things That Make Every Woman Insecure

January 6th, 2012 - By Julia Austin

"Woman biting her nails"

Think you’re the only woman who wishes she could keep her cool over certain things? Think again. We’re not made of stone. As much as we’ve worked on our self-confidence and learned to let some things roll off our shoulders, there are just some parts of a relationship that get under every woman’s skin. Like these:

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  • http://www.facebook.com/nieshag Niesha Gourdine

    all women have insecurities.. point blank, and if you say u don’t you a lie.

  • Matter of Thought

    Every woman has insecurities, but so does every man. Because of an ex insecurities, I’d became insecure within the relationship. So like someone else said ‘woman up’ women, we are insecure too. Men that love you want to be your everything. I kind of get the close buddy buddy thing though. You have to face the fact as women although you are with someone he will have friends. My friend guided me through an ex insecurities, she gave me information to try to make the relationship between me and my mate stronger. It did not last and after consoling on a friends shoulder even afterwards I realized that the friend was true, loyal and maybe the person for me.

    • Matter of Thought

      I know some woman will bash me so let me explain…The friend was a good  friend a true friend. A friend who understands your heart is good and what it stores. Otherwise I dont think she would have been giving me any advice on my relationship if she just wanted to bang me. The type of friend that would guide me on certain things I should do to make me happier because that is what she wanted to see me be.  The friend who told me to pour out my heart. The type of friend who kept me smiling and laughing afterwards. The one who would never have to intentionally try to steal me from anyone because she’s no home-wrecking wh-rebag.

  • FromUR2UB

    When a group of people who know each other, begin making private jokes or talking about subjects that the other people present don’t know anything about, that’s just plain rude.  Making people feel excluded in this way is just being an a**hole.  Most of these are not something women should feel insecure about, because they don’t really have anything to do with her.

  • Pivyque

    I don’t agree with any of them except the finishing one. If my husband were a little older or had some sort of accident, I would understand, but he always finishes lol So if he suddenly stopped, I would be curious as to why. 

  • http://twitter.com/HighSadiddy1 Tricia Clark

    -the rambunctious friend doesn’t make me insecure…

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  • Manlisten

    I can definetly relate to The one about him “not getting his”, start second guessing yourself, but then again do men second guess themselves when u don’t get yours? Probably not…

  • shehiplocki

    I think they forgot the one where he no longer dresses up to please you, letting his appearance go.  
     Taking your presence and interest for granted.   Thats a no no in my book.

    • http://twitter.com/HighSadiddy1 Tricia Clark

      That’s true, but men let themselves go because they get comfortable…but when they decide to work out and get back into shape they get blamed for trying to look good for somebody else hence cheating!

    • Pivyque

      I agree with you. Luckily mine likes working out with me so we stay in shape together. Makes it easier to not let ourselves go.

  • Torontochick

    How about, “When women hit on your man in front of you or on Facebook.” lol. That’ll do it!

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    • http://twitter.com/HighSadiddy1 Tricia Clark

      Lol it does! Honestly, I’ll be ready to slap somebody, that’s so disrespectful!

    • Pivyque

      Well, I don’t mind that! He is handsome and I can’t get upset if other women agree with me lol

  • Lucy

    “And feeling like on-lookers think you and your boyfriend have nothing in common” more like ppl start asking if you or what exactly you have in common smh i dont mind foreign hobbies but no in def makes you feel some type of way

  • Jenn M Parks

    Yea most of these just annoy me BUT when you know who you are insecurity isn’t a word I’d use to describe any of these things…

    • Lucy

      agree !

    • Nina

      Agreed!

    • http://twitter.com/HighSadiddy1 Tricia Clark

      True!

  • Hmmmmm

    This another example that some women forget that the relationship is not all about them. Deal with your insecurities. It is not his job. Woman up.

  • DeepThinker

    Rude friends that try to discourage him from being with you becuase they are alone. Man-whole friends that want your man to be a player and mistreat women like they do. The ex-girlfriend/fling that keeps hanging around, because he wont cut her off .

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    • Matter of Thought

      Please help me understand the ‘fling/ex thing’. I have no communication with any ex. That has not stopped women from thinking it though. I’m dealing with it right now all over AGAIN. You can not make a person believe a thing. If a man or woman is going to cheat they are. If you do not feel at peace in a relationship you ought not be in it.

  • justme

    Why would you say INSECURE! Abolutely not! If you are insecure in your relationship, then anything he does, does not do, say, does not say, go, and be friends may cause you to be insecure. Looking thru some of these, I would say maybe used the descriptive objective of maybe annoyed, but never insecure.