If your family is anything like mine, by the time the holidays are over you’ve had your full share of drama and drunkenness.  Let’s be honest, as much as we all would like to take the lyrics straight out of the famed Donny Hathaway classic, after a few cocktails your relatives may be doing a lot more cussing than caroling and you might see more flying fists than shaking hands.  No need to be ashamed; even Clark Griswold had his share of unruly relatives and holiday foolishness.  By planning ahead this holiday and setting rules in place, you may be able to keep rowdy relatives on their best behavior so that they can actually enjoy the family reunion instead of merely surviving it.