New York Attorney Calls For End To Ladies Night

September 10th, 2010 - By TheEditor

by Charing Ball

Hey Ladies, if Roy Den Hollander had his way, it would be no more discounted drinks and free admission for you at bars and nightclubs.

Hollander, a New York attorney and self-proclaim anti-feminist, is preparing to forge ahead with his lawsuit to end “Ladies Night” promotions at mostly nightclubs and bars – a promotion, which he feels is bias towards men.  Hollander feels so strongly about this perceived biasness that he is prepared to take his case all the way to the Supreme Court if needed.

And right now, it appears that the courts are calling his bluff as the discrimination case was thrown out of the Second Circuit Court of Appeal just last week for lack of evidence. Yet being the perceptive and true gentleman he is, Hollander, who has filed lawsuits challenging Columbia University’s decision to offer courses in women’s studies, believes that his chances of actually getting his case heard at the highest court in the land are doubtful.

Though the issue may seem frivolous to some, the charges of discriminatory or reverse sexism can be a serious financial blow to many small businesses. But are private clubs legally allowed to charge more for admission and drinks or run special promotions based on gender without it being considered reverse sexism?  Well, let me put my law degree to use, which I received via the Google Search Law School.

According to one legal site [tag: quick and dirty tips], the Fourteenth Amendment to the Constitution guarantees “equal protection of the laws” to each citizen, but the Fourteenth Amendment usually applies to states and federal discriminating, not private businesses or individuals. Yet some states do have various Equal Protection and Civil Rights Laws, which prohibits anyone from discriminating on the bases of sex, religion and of course, race.

In 2006, Seven San Diego County nightspots settled for a total of $125,000 with two men, who accused the establishments of discrimination under the California Civil-rights Law for their Ladies Night’s promotions. In 2009, a man won a $510,000 class-action settlement against the Oakland A’s for excluding men from a 2004 Mother’s Day promotion, in which The A’s offered women free mammograms and floppy plaid sun hats from Macy’s.

And in 2004, the Director of Civil Rights in New Jersey issued a ruling that Ladies’ Night did in fact violate the state’s law against discrimination. However, that ruling was eventually overturned by the state legislature and ladies were once again free to sip Pina Coladas at discounted rates at nightspots all across the Garden State. WhooHoo.

The reality is that if private establishments offer these Ladies Night promotions, they do run the risk of being sued for discrimination by some angry, bitter man with delusions of being oppressed. The reality is that in this patriarchal society, these gimmicks have less to do with offering women preferential treatment but rather using women as nothing more than products to attract single – and sometimes married men – who are in fact the real targets of these promotions.

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  • masculist

    Traditional gender roles have always restricted the lives of women AND men alike. One of the reasons society has such a hard time "accepting" the men's liberation movement (i.e. masculism) is ironically due to sexist notions like "chivalry" or manipulative messages ("real men don't cry" or "take it like a man"). To see just how crappy the masculine gender role has always been, just read Warren Farrell's progressive book "The Myth of Male Power," Herb Goldberg's "Hazards of being Male: Surviving the Myth of Masculine Privilege," Esther Vilar's "Manipulated Man," or Jack Kammer's "If men Have all of the Power, How Come Women Make the Rules?" just to name a few. Restrictive gender roles, in and of themselves, are a common "enemy" that can unite feminists and masculists. Scapegoating only divides the movements.

  • JdL

    I'm sorry to see an otherwise excellent column marred by a reference to "this patriarchal society". Apparently you're not aware of what goes on in "family courts", to name just one glaring example, where divorcing wives rake men over the coals and are seldom held to account for blowing off fathers' visitation rights.

    Nevertheless, I agree that the lawsuit is absurd. Free people should be able to offer whatever bargains they like to whomever they choose, without government courts butting it.

  • martin

    *Self-proclaimED anti-feminist not self-proclaim anti-feminist
    *BiasED towards men not bias towards men
    *Bias not Biasness (I'm not sure that word exists in the English language)

  • Robert Yourell

    That last paragraph is a real doozy. Do all those decades of struggle for equality not apply to women's only business groups, ladies nights, custody decisions, child support, and feelings? (Feelings, since apparently someone with feelings about it is angry, bitter, and delusional.) Why is it OK to dehumanize men like that? Let's be aware of ways that our society and culture can have negative impacts on people by gender. In some ways, men get the oppression, in some ways women do. Neither are acceptable. Personally, I don't really care so much about ladies night, but I understand that those who do are concerned about equality. Dehumanizing them just fogs up the issues. Should I not believe it when women claim to be more empathic and understanding? Maybe not!

  • Tom Dougherty

    Discrimination is discrimination. I refuse to go to a bar that has a "ladies night" not merely because I do not drink, but any woman who would go to a bar on "ladies night" is not someone I am interested in meeting sober either. Anyone who guffaws about this type of discrimination is part of the problem of perpetuating inequality and promoting harmful chivalry extant in our culture.

  • Silas

    Would this be attached to senior citizens' discounts? That could be age discrimination.

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