Hey, you’re not straight. You’re also not gay. You’re bi. Don’t look at me; that’s just what some of the very smart people over at Cornell and Northwestern University have to say after doing some research on the topic. Apparently, most people are bisexual and there may be no such thing as straightforward, well, straightness. Or gayness. So, with that in mind, it shouldn’t be too surprising that, even if you aren’t bisexual, you may very well wind up with somebody who is. I’ve had a couple of male friends end up with bisexual women. I have to be honest with you and say that at first, I had my preconceived notions—I worried that these women would leave my male buddies for other women. I’ve since realized that, I was being silly. I mean, no relationship is perfect but, someone in the relationship being bisexual really doesn’t pose a threat—for the most part. So, fellas: here is what it’s like to marry a bisexual woman when you’re straight.
People ask why she’s out
Some people question why your partner even tells people she’s bisexual. She plans on spending her life with a man now, right? So we even bother disclosing that she’s bisexual? Well, because it’s a part of who she is. There are plenty of pieces of information you can choose about any given person and say, “There’s no reason for that to come up.” But, it also isn’t healthy for someone to feel they need to conceal something about themselves—whether or not it’s relevant.