Dating Someone With Borderline Personality Disorder
Do not lend them money
Unfortunately, it is not a good idea to lend someone with BPD money. Impulse control is a major symptom of BPD. That means this person could, at once, spend all of that money on something they can’t afford and lash out at their boss, get fired, and lose the means to make back that money (and pay you back). You can provide emotional support but do not provide financial support.