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Before we get into this, let’s just get a refresher on what the five love languages are. You have: words of affirmation, quality time, receiving gifts, acts of service, and physical touch. Do you and your partner have to speak the same love languages to be happy together? Not necessarily. Often, so long as you understand your partner’s love language and learn to identify when he’s speaking it, you can be happy and feel loved. It’s not unlike learning the actual language of someone from a foreign country. Once you get over the language barrier, you can really tell one another how you feel. But sometimes, if you’re not really fluent in your partner’s love language, and it’s the only one he speaks, you can wind up pretty miserable. If the reverse is true, your partner can be miserable. Here are signs your love languages just don’t vibe.

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Your partner seems oblivious

You often really feel that your partner is totally oblivious. It sometimes feels like you’re on two different planets, and he couldn’t possibly guess what you’re feeling right now if you asked him to.

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